Mom that "beat" son in Baltimore riots now

[Anonymous]

This didn't take long. I fully support this mother and how she handled her son. I'd hardly say she beat him or that this was abuse.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/2015/04/29/why-is-america-celebrating-the-beating-of-a-black-child/

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Really? You approve of a mother beating her son? I understand why she did, given the context, but I abhor it. The son is engaging in violence so she...treats him with violence. And the cycle goes on. If this child had been a white boy from Bethesda and his mom was caught on tape beating him on the street she would be charged with abuse. But a black boy in the middle of a protest and everyone claps. Its bizarre. You can find hundreds of pages of threads on DCUM arguing about whether spanking is right, but all seem to agree that it should stop, if it is ever right at all, once the child can be reasoned with. I think the subtext to the approval of the beating of this boy is that because he is a poor black boy in West Baltimore he can't be reasoned with, can't be treated like other teens.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Really? You approve of a mother beating her son? I understand why she did, given the context, but I abhor it. The son is engaging in violence so she...treats him with violence. And the cycle goes on. If this child had been a white boy from Bethesda and his mom was caught on tape beating him on the street she would be charged with abuse. But a black boy in the middle of a protest and everyone claps. Its bizarre. You can find hundreds of pages of threads on DCUM arguing about whether spanking is right, but all seem to agree that it should stop, if it is ever right at all, once the child can be reasoned with. I think the subtext to the approval of the beating of this boy is that because he is a poor black boy in West Baltimore he can't be reasoned with, can't be treated like other teens.

BINGO!
Plus, everyone now knows her name, but I bet we don't all know the names of the 6 officers suspected of killing Freddie Gray, whose name we all know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Really? You approve of a mother beating her son? I understand why she did, given the context, but I abhor it. The son is engaging in violence so she...treats him with violence. And the cycle goes on. If this child had been a white boy from Bethesda and his mom was caught on tape beating him on the street she would be charged with abuse. But a black boy in the middle of a protest and everyone claps. Its bizarre. You can find hundreds of pages of threads on DCUM arguing about whether spanking is right, but all seem to agree that it should stop, if it is ever right at all, once the child can be reasoned with. I think the subtext to the approval of the beating of this boy is that because he is a poor black boy in West Baltimore he can't be reasoned with, can't be treated like other teens.

Did you watch the video? I wouldn't call that a beating. I'm white, middle class and was spanked as a child. Not often, but there were a few times and I'm sure it was warranted. Guess what? I'm a normal and productive member of society.

Fwiw....I'd feel exactly the same if this happened to a "white boy from Bethesda".

[Anonymous]

Some of you have lived charmed lives if this was a "beating" to you. LOL

And sorry. I do not believe in corporal punishment and have never spanked my children (I was spanked as a child). But I damn sure am not going to stand in the middle of a riot and "reason" with my son. He is coming with me by force if need be. When we are talking about life, death and arrest, all of my "child resaoning" bets are off.

If this had been a White boy in Bethsda who was out there rioting after a Caps loss, I would fully support a parent doing what this lady did.

[Anonymous]

She probably wasn't thinking and just really scared. I wouldn't go as far as calling it abuse.
They seem to have made it through the experience ok. And it sounds like he knows he was being stupid.

http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2015/04/29/embarrassed-son-of-mom-who-slapped-him-when-she-saw-him-with-baltimore-rioters-speaks-out/

[Anonymous]

I think she did what she had to do in the moment to protect her son. I do not think of it as violence. I imagine she was terrifird and wsnted to knock sense into her son. Should she have hugged it out, put him in time out, counted one two three...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Really? You approve of a mother beating her son? I understand why she did, given the context, but I abhor it. The son is engaging in violence so she...treats him with violence. And the cycle goes on. If this child had been a white boy from Bethesda and his mom was caught on tape beating him on the street she would be charged with abuse. But a black boy in the middle of a protest and everyone claps. Its bizarre. You can find hundreds of pages of threads on DCUM arguing about whether spanking is right, but all seem to agree that it should stop, if it is ever right at all, once the child can be reasoned with. I think the subtext to the approval of the beating of this boy is that because he is a poor black boy in West Baltimore he can't be reasoned with, can't be treated like other teens.

BINGO!
Plus, everyone now knows her name, but I bet we don't all know the names of the 6 officers suspected of killing Freddie Gray, whose name we all know.

Here you go...google is your friend. The names were released over a week ago.

https://www.baltimorebrew.com/2015/04/21/names-of-officers-suspended-as-part-of-freddie-gray-case/

[jsteele]

Anonymous wrote:Really? You approve of a mother beating her son? I understand why she did, given the context, but I abhor it. The son is engaging in violence so she...treats him with violence. And the cycle goes on. If this child had been a white boy from Bethesda and his mom was caught on tape beating him on the street she would be charged with abuse. But a black boy in the middle of a protest and everyone claps. Its bizarre. You can find hundreds of pages of threads on DCUM arguing about whether spanking is right, but all seem to agree that it should stop, if it is ever right at all, once the child can be reasoned with. I think the subtext to the approval of the beating of this boy is that because he is a poor black boy in West Baltimore he can't be reasoned with, can't be treated like other teens.

The context is a bit more than simply the race of the mother and son. The son was in the midst of a riot in which participants were throwing bricks at police officers. The son had a rock in his hand when his mom saw him. She acknowledged that she "lost it", which I think is understandable in the situation. If "a white boy from Bethesda" was seen by his parent while he was holding a rock in the midst of a riot, I would forgive that parent for losing it.

If anything, the mother's reaction should highlight the brutal tactics normally displayed by the police toward young black offenders. The mom absolutely was correct to fear that her son could be killed. The parent of a white boy from Bethesda would likely not understand that sort of primal fear and might not react in the same manner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Really? You approve of a mother beating her son? I understand why she did, given the context, but I abhor it. The son is engaging in violence so she...treats him with violence. And the cycle goes on. If this child had been a white boy from Bethesda and his mom was caught on tape beating him on the street she would be charged with abuse. But a black boy in the middle of a protest and everyone claps. Its bizarre. You can find hundreds of pages of threads on DCUM arguing about whether spanking is right, but all seem to agree that it should stop, if it is ever right at all, once the child can be reasoned with. I think the subtext to the approval of the beating of this boy is that because he is a poor black boy in West Baltimore he can't be reasoned with, can't be treated like other teens.

Did you watch the video? I wouldn't call that a beating. I'm white, middle class and was spanked as a child. Not often, but there were a few times and I'm sure it was warranted. Guess what? I'm a normal and productive member of society.

Fwiw....I'd feel exactly the same if this happened to a "white boy from Bethesda".

If a teacher did that to your child, you would call it a beating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Really? You approve of a mother beating her son? I understand why she did, given the context, but I abhor it. The son is engaging in violence so she...treats him with violence. And the cycle goes on. If this child had been a white boy from Bethesda and his mom was caught on tape beating him on the street she would be charged with abuse. But a black boy in the middle of a protest and everyone claps. Its bizarre. You can find hundreds of pages of threads on DCUM arguing about whether spanking is right, but all seem to agree that it should stop, if it is ever right at all, once the child can be reasoned with. I think the subtext to the approval of the beating of this boy is that because he is a poor black boy in West Baltimore he can't be reasoned with, can't be treated like other teens.

Did you watch the video? I wouldn't call that a beating. I'm white, middle class and was spanked as a child. Not often, but there were a few times and I'm sure it was warranted. Guess what? I'm a normal and productive member of society.

Fwiw....I'd feel exactly the same if this happened to a "white boy from Bethesda".

If a teacher did that to your child, you would call it a beating.

Another PP here. Not me. I went to Catholic school in the early 70's. I KNOW what a teacher beating a student looks and feels like. And this is not a teacher, this was his mother. IMO, she gets more leeway than a teacher should. I would call waht the teacher did unnacetable and want them disciplined or fired, but I would still not label it a beating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Really? You approve of a mother beating her son? I understand why she did, given the context, but I abhor it. The son is engaging in violence so she...treats him with violence. And the cycle goes on. If this child had been a white boy from Bethesda and his mom was caught on tape beating him on the street she would be charged with abuse. But a black boy in the middle of a protest and everyone claps. Its bizarre. You can find hundreds of pages of threads on DCUM arguing about whether spanking is right, but all seem to agree that it should stop, if it is ever right at all, once the child can be reasoned with. I think the subtext to the approval of the beating of this boy is that because he is a poor black boy in West Baltimore he can't be reasoned with, can't be treated like other teens.

Did you watch the video? I wouldn't call that a beating. I'm white, middle class and was spanked as a child. Not often, but there were a few times and I'm sure it was warranted. Guess what? I'm a normal and productive member of society.

Fwiw....I'd feel exactly the same if this happened to a "white boy from Bethesda".

If a teacher did that to your child, you would call it a beating.

What an absurd comment. She isn't his teacher, she is his mother. As Jeff pointed out, she did what she felt was necessary at that moment and in that situation.

[Anonymous]

She did the right thing as a Mom. She went out there, found her son and then smacked him good for showing such poor judgement. More power to her, wish more parents take charge of their kids rather than acting politically correct.

[Anonymous]

nope, I would smack my kid upside the head if I saw her about to participate in such nonsense where she could actually get killed.