| Strategies to get through til your next visit, time together? Love to hear any ideas! |
| what's an AP? I wonder if I have one! |
| What do you do if you no longer see the AP? |
| I don't have affairs. I am better than that. |
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one pint of ice cream
romantic novels read dcum see other AP |
| You create a thread on non explicit entitled, "what do you do when you miss your AP?" |
| I call up a friend to go shopping, sleep, clean, movies, I'll try a new restaurant, masturbate. Sometimes I'll find a recipe that I know he will enjoy and I head to the grocery store. |
| ^ oh god. Really? This is so, so sad. |
| Call .... |
| So, what is an AP? |
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An affair partner.
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Oh! Well then this is an easy question to answer, OP. You sit around and hate yourself and wonder if you're always going to be the type of loser who dates married men!! |
It depends on how close you two are... For me... There are several emotions... I miss her. I want to be with her. And I am annoyed that we can not be together... |
What I do while waiting for AP: - Hate myself for wanting him so much - wish I could meet someone else I liked as much as him - call him (no answer) - feel immense guilt and shame. Think about how he can't possibly respect me. - write an unsent letter to his wife in my head, apologizing to her - think about what my family would think of me if they knew - tell myself I'm not going to call him today - remember the last time I saw him. call again (no answer) - schedule a date with another guy - read self-help books. Realize I have so many problems that a successful relationship seems impossible. - wonder why he's so insecure - think of ways he could fix his relationship with his wife and things he could do that would make her happier - realize he's a dick for not doing them |
| Order 40 burgers to go from White Castle. |