Ladies: How do you know if a guy will be

[Anonymous]

good in bed? I mean BEFORE sleeping with him, obviously.

[Anonymous]

Look at his hands!! Please! If hands are tiny and small then dick is tiny and small !

[Anonymous]

Lol at pp.

Is he affectionate? DH is always affectionate and that leads into making sure i always have aT least one orgasm. I've noticed more laid back guys are better in bed.

[Anonymous]

You want someone who is confident without being cocky, affectionate in a way that's comfortable to you, and attentive to you and your needs outside the bedroom.

[Anonymous]

I can tell before we get naked if we have a good connection - can he read me? Does he take cues for physical affection? Like someone who is all up in my business while I'm trying to drive probably can't read my physical cues. It's hard to explain.

[Anonymous]

You have no way of knowing. In fact, in my experience, men who advertise their skills subtly or explicitly invariably suck in bed.

One douche I knew was good looking and tall and constantly dropped hints about how horny he was. I just knew the sex would be wild. Well, at the moment of truth, this jerk had the nerve to struggle to get hard and then came really early as soon as he finally got hard. I longed to slap him.

Another guy was really quiet and refined. He barely spoke above a whisper and made no innuendo at all. Almost seemed afraid of me. Well, I barely survived the encounter! He was hung and hard as a rock with a libido like he had downed ten viagras. He was aggressive, dominant, skilled, and super kinky. Ugh. I still fantasize about him years later.

[Anonymous]

How he dances.

[Anonymous]

He's comfortable in his own skin. Not awkward and easily embarrassed ( we all have those moments, but for some people it seems to be their default mode). He's not cocky. His touch, holding hands, kissing, etc. feels good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How he dances.

+1

[Anonymous]

You can't tell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How he dances.

+1

Not true! DH is the worst dancer ever and is very generous and vigorous in bed.

[Anonymous]

One douche I knew was good looking and tall and constantly dropped hints about how horny he was. I just knew the sex would be wild. Well, at the moment of truth, this jerk had the nerve to struggle to get hard and then came really early as soon as he finally got hard. I longed to slap him.

Thi+100

[Anonymous]

I could never tell. I dated one guy in college who when we met (before we started dating) I thought oh he must be great in bed. He always had girls around him despite being average-looking and he was older so I figured more experienced. Nope, he sucked. Pounded away like a jackhammer and not much else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Look at his hands!! Please! If hands are tiny and small then dick is tiny and small !

LMAO. I have small hands for a man and I have a well above average....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You have no way of knowing. In fact, in my experience, men who advertise their skills subtly or explicitly invariably suck in bed.

One douche I knew was good looking and tall and constantly dropped hints about how horny he was. I just knew the sex would be wild. Well, at the moment of truth, this jerk had the nerve to struggle to get hard and then came really early as soon as he finally got hard. I longed to slap him.

Another guy was really quiet and refined. He barely spoke above a whisper and made no innuendo at all. Almost seemed afraid of me. Well, I barely survived the encounter! He was hung and hard as a rock with a libido like he had downed ten viagras. He was aggressive, dominant, skilled, and super kinky. Ugh. I still fantasize about him years later.

THIS IS A GREAT RESPONSE!!

The only thing I would add is you won't be able to tell in a just met/one nighter. But, you can get a better sense over some time. Even then, refer back to the above!