Ladies: How do you know if a guy will be

[Anonymous]

Well he was not my AP most like a ONS , and im single . I don't longer talk to him.

[Anonymous]

Charisma (not cockiness), self-assuredness, and level of playfulness/ sexiness. Being good in bed is about so much more than penis size.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well he was not my AP most like a ONS , and im single . I don't longer talk to him.

Why would you refer to him as your affair partner if you are single? Did you just not know what the abbreviation meant?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's comfortable in his own skin. Not awkward and easily embarrassed ( we all have those moments, but for some people it seems to be their default mode). He's not cocky. His touch, holding hands, kissing, etc. feels good.

Yes definitely!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:, the other a micro penis (even hard, could not fit into a condom). The other guy was huge--6'3", giant hands and feet, maybe a 4"-4.5" penis.

You been sleeping with my ex AP ? Lol his micro penis either could fit into the condom lol

Micro-penis was a long time ago (before DH). But I wouldn't be surprised if he got around. He was a bartender and I think he still works in the restaurant business. It's a shame, because he was a great kisser...

[Anonymous]

You cannot. There is no way.

[Anonymous]

If he knows how to kiss.

I've had terrible luck with men who enjoy PDA. I found those guys were putting on a big show for their friends but weren't really all that horny behind the scenes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You cannot. There is no way.

I agree. The guy who I could make out with for hours wasn't very good, the guy with the hugest size I have ever seen in real life or porn was awkward-also a magical kisser. My personal best ever, I had no idea before. He was in great shape and he knew he was great, but didn't really let on. I still fantasize about him.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You cannot. There is no way.

I agree. The guy who I could make out with for hours wasn't very good, the guy with the hugest size I have ever seen in real life or porn was awkward-also a magical kisser. My personal best ever, I had no idea before. He was in great shape and he knew he was great, but didn't really let on. I still fantasize about him.[u]

Thank you and I still remember you as well. j/k LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You have no way of knowing. In fact, in my experience, men who advertise their skills subtly or explicitly invariably suck in bed.

One douche I knew was good looking and tall and constantly dropped hints about how horny he was. I just knew the sex would be wild. Well, at the moment of truth, this jerk had the nerve to struggle to get hard and then came really early as soon as he finally got hard. I longed to slap him.

Another guy was really quiet and refined. He barely spoke above a whisper and made no innuendo at all. Almost seemed afraid of me. Well, I barely survived the encounter! He was hung and hard as a rock with a libido like he had downed ten viagras. He was aggressive, dominant, skilled, and super kinky. Ugh. I still fantasize about him years later.

Hilarious! You should write a sex column for women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You cannot. There is no way.

I agree. The guy who I could make out with for hours wasn't very good, the guy with the hugest size I have ever seen in real life or porn was awkward-also a magical kisser. My personal best ever, I had no idea before. He was in great shape and he knew he was great, but didn't really let on. I still fantasize about him.

I could be the guy you are talking about, though total porn size. Dated someone for a year who decided to end the relationship. I was really sad and wonder if she ever fantasizes about some of the things we did,......