Craving an experience with a woman, but I don't want to hurt my husband!

[Anonymous]

Here's a question for the guys: would you be just as hurt if your wife had an affair (one-time, sexual) with a woman as if it were with a man? I'm not planning on cheating on my husband, but I've always been attracted to some women. I never had the chance to experiment before, even though I wanted to. Why? Because I always had a boyfriend and didn't really have an opportunity to get with a woman I actually liked. It's also hard to know if they would be interested. I'm cute, dare I say pretty, and I think if a woman saw me she wouldn't think I was into girls. Now I'm married. Not sure what to do because the craving is there. I don't want a long-term relationship with a woman, just want to see what it's like, but don't want to hurt my husband either. What to do?

[Anonymous]

Put it in the explicit forum.

[Anonymous]

I am in the same boat but my husband would consider it cheating. So I know that if I do he could be so upset that he may not get over it - this is what stops me.

[Anonymous]

Oh, I didn't use any explicit language though...

[Anonymous]

Good Lord. Move it to the freak forum !

[Anonymous]

Ask him to join in or watch. Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

No tips on how to go about this. But it is funny because oftentimes it is the husband who has a fantasy that his wife would have a lesbian romp but the wife would never go for it. Now if you could just convince your DH.

[Anonymous]

Sorry - how do I move it to the other forum? Didn't realize...

[Anonymous]

I dont see why this goes in explicit. The implication that nonhetero sex is freaky is really offensive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
No tips on how to go about this. But it is funny because oftentimes it is the husband who has a fantasy that his wife would have a lesbian romp but the wife would never go for it. Now if you could just convince your DH.

I wondered if he'd be interested in that, but I'd be too afraid to ask. The truth is... I kind of wanted this experience by myself as opposed to with him there.

[Anonymous]

I don't see why it would need to be in the explicit forum when all you are doing is speaking out loud about imagining something taking place.

[Anonymous]

We need a pearl clutcher forum

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am in the same boat but my husband would consider it cheating. So I know that if I do he could be so upset that he may not get over it - this is what stops me.

Yea, if my husband got with another man (even just something surface level) I would quickly end things. Is there a double standard though? I feel like there might be...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

We need a pearl clutcher forum

What's that?

[Anonymous]

Some people on here offend too easily. Get over yourself.