There is something to this. Growing up in a comfortable UMC family in the 80s-90s, so many of the moms were teachers, either at private or good public schools. The dads were doctors, lawyers, bankers, corporate executives while the moms were teachers and nurses, though there were a few who were also doctors/lawyers but they were a distinct minority. Many of the moms taught school while putting husbands through med/law schools, took a decade or 15 years off to raise kids, then went back to teaching. But today? All the doctors/lawyers are married to other doctors/lawyers/senior corp executives. Not teachers. And the kids of teachers I knew growing up did not become teachers. Of my entire class from a prep school, I can think of one who became a teacher while we have several professors. |
| Legacy of "women's work" unfortunately |
Kids of teachers don’t become teachers. That’s true. But the reason isn’t because they have their sights “higher”; it’s because teachers don’t want their children to suffer in a thankless, impossible job. I’m a teacher and a dang good one. I told my kids to pick anything but teaching. It’s not that I don’t respect teachers. It’s that I know teaching takes extreme talent and effort, and what you get out of it in terms of respect and pay isn’t a fraction of what you put into it. My kids can get easier jobs that pay more. They can enjoy a better work/life balance. I know they could become tremendous teachers because they have the grit, stamina, and intellect to do well. But why? Why work so hard for so little? |
Has she said the word pension? Because I started in FCPS in and was never offered a pension. Older teachers were grandfathered in. Maybe your friend has one. But that’s not the experience of the mid-career teacher in our area. |