Agree. I'm the PP from the comment Sure with hard work you can obtain that look. But everyone should do strength training and not let the fear of looking "too bulky" dissuade them from doing so. In my experience, just about everyone worried about that could never achieve it anyway. |
Maybe this is different for men, but people who don't lift have a tendency to overestimate the level of muscle/leanness that is naturally attainable by women. When there was a video game character based on a particular elite CrossFit competitor, there was a lot of commentary about how the character was based on a real woman's body so this was natural/obtainable/realistic, without noting that she's certainly juicing. I don't think it's as clear-cut with the above picture, but there are a number of reasons to think she's on something. Women can get strong and have visible muscle mass, but you are going to hit limits in terms of size and leanness much faster than men are, and particularly if your livelihood is based on maintaining a certain difficult-to-achieve look year-round, it is more likely that you're using than if you're just some guy (or gal) who is doing it as a hobby. At any rate, if you're a woman trying to decide whether to get more athletic, someone at the very tails of that look (whether it's through juicing or, sure, maybe she just eats a lot of chicken breasts and rice) should not impact that choice because you aren't going to accidentally wind up looking like that. |
Oh, for sure. It reminds me of something I heard that went like "for women, not lifting weights out of a fear of looking like a bodybuilder is like is not driving out of fear of turning into a NASCAR driver" It just won't happen without LOTS of other changes. And given how valuable strenght training is as we age, its a important that everyone does it |
Oh, go jump off a bridge. No one wants to hear your take on what women's breast "should" look like. |
Seems weird to go into a thread about men's preferences on body type and then get offended when a man expresses his preference on body type. If you are going to be triggered, probably best to stay out of this thread. |
NP. The not-controllable shape of a woman's breast after breastfeeding is not relevant to a discussion of whether men find athletic women attractive. She can't lift weights with her boobs, dude. |
The original comment above was simply to comment on the use of “athletic” in online dating. It was neutral on breast size and didn’t need that idiot to jump on to let us know he approves of smaller breasts, so no surprise he went ahead with a sexist comment later. |
No she cannot...BUT she can lift weights to target her pecs and other muscles around the boobs that will prevent some of the aforementioned "pancake" look. But I also agree it is rude to comment on boobs when that is not related to athleticism. |
Pecs and breast tissue are not the same thing at all. |
| Yes, athletic women are attractive, but they usually aren't better in bed. Women who like to eat are usually better in bed. |
Woman here, and one that doesn't like women objectified, but this is literally a conversation about what guy's find attractive. Women don't find tiny penises attractive either, it sucks but it is what it is. |
Really. A lot of women don't really have control over whether they are "athletic" looking. And the guy above was responding to a comment about small breasts in particular because of some comment about athletic women having small breasts. So coming into a thread like this and getting huffy about a discussion of boob attractiveness is ridiculous. |
| Depends on the man, depends on the woman. |
No! NO! NO! Don't you know all men are the same and want exactly the same thing. |
Whatever their wife tells? |