“That’s my dogs name”

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I would not tell someone that their kid has the same name as your dog.


+1.


+2 Of course it's rude. You love your dog, OP, but most people don't take "your kid is just like my dog" as a compliment.



I don’t see how sharing that your family pet and a child share a name means that anyone believes that the kid is just like the dog?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:How do you not know this is rude? I literally remember when I was about 7, I met a girl named Darby. That was our dog's name, but I realized it would be rude to tell her that. I was in 1st grade I think!



I get what you are saying, but the way the conversation went down was different than that. We were talking about our children and she shared with me that they named their youngest Ruby because they love old fashioned names. We were actively talking about the name in question so it felt natural to share my own experience/love with that name? I didn’t realize it would steal her thunder.


You didn’t steal her thunder.

You were rude and obnoxious.

There’s a difference.


No she wasn't. If her friend is the type to be upset that her daughter shares a dog's name, she should have chosen something that no one would name their dog. Ruby is right in the cute, two-syllable sweet spot for dogs (see: Lucy, Bella, Lana, Ava, Lila, etc.).
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would not tell someone that their kid has the same name as your dog.


+1.


+2 Of course it's rude. You love your dog, OP, but most people don't take "your kid is just like my dog" as a compliment.



Dp. What if they ask you directly what your dog's name is? Sorry but you people are too much!


That's not what happened. Someone said "My daughter Ruby" and OP said "OMG just like my dog!" Dog people do this all the time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would not tell someone that their kid has the same name as your dog.


+1.


+2 Of course it's rude. You love your dog, OP, but most people don't take "your kid is just like my dog" as a compliment.

Noting a shared name is not at all saying your kid is just like my dog! It is saying they have the same name, which....they do.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do you not know this is rude? I literally remember when I was about 7, I met a girl named Darby. That was our dog's name, but I realized it would be rude to tell her that. I was in 1st grade I think!



I get what you are saying, but the way the conversation went down was different than that. We were talking about our children and she shared with me that they named their youngest Ruby because they love old fashioned names. We were actively talking about the name in question so it felt natural to share my own experience/love with that name? I didn’t realize it would steal her thunder.


You didn’t steal her thunder.

You were rude and obnoxious.

There’s a difference.


No she wasn't. If her friend is the type to be upset that her daughter shares a dog's name, she should have chosen something that no one would name their dog. Ruby is right in the cute, two-syllable sweet spot for dogs (see: Lucy, Bella, Lana, Ava, Lila, etc.).


This is hilarious. Those are all human names, and people should avoid them because it's recently become trendy to name dogs human names?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would not tell someone that their kid has the same name as your dog.


+1.


+2 Of course it's rude. You love your dog, OP, but most people don't take "your kid is just like my dog" as a compliment.



Dp. What if they ask you directly what your dog's name is? Sorry but you people are too much!


That's not what happened. Someone said "My daughter Ruby" and OP said "OMG just like my dog!" Dog people do this all the time.



Way to dramatize. I casually responded that I love that name and that it is also my dogs name. Did you even read the original post?
Anonymous
I do think this is the difference between dog people and non-dog people. People who are dog people don't understand why non-dog people would find this to be rude. Non-dog people don't like your dog...or any dog, so making that comparison won't be received well.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I can't lie, I'm irritated at a friend who named her dog my son's name several years after I'd had my son. We are part of a bigger friend group, so it's not like my kid will see this dog a lot. But it's still really irritating to me. I'd rather have a friend name their kid the same name, but a dog feels insulting.

I actually sort of hate it when people use common names for their animals in general. Lets keep it to Sparky and Snowflake.


You are officially absurd. I am moving you to the bottom of the covid vaccine priority list.


+1000

Signed,
Dog mom of Stan and Elsie.


You must be lost, this is a forum for parents of human children. Also lol at dog mom.


Why would you assume that I don’t have human children?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I do think this is the difference between dog people and non-dog people. People who are dog people don't understand why non-dog people would find this to be rude. Non-dog people don't like your dog...or any dog, so making that comparison won't be received well.



This family in particular has two dogs, so idk.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would not tell someone that their kid has the same name as your dog.


+1.


+2 Of course it's rude. You love your dog, OP, but most people don't take "your kid is just like my dog" as a compliment.



Dp. What if they ask you directly what your dog's name is? Sorry but you people are too much!


That's not what happened.[/b] Someone said "My daughter Ruby" and OP said "OMG just like my dog!" [b] Dog people do this all the time.



Way to dramatize. [b]I casually responded that I love that name and that it is also my dogs name. Did you even read the original post?


I love how clueless the OP is. Do you realize you just paraphrased the bolded post while claiming you said no such thing???? Let me guess, you refer to yourself as a dog mom?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I have Charlie. If I had a nickel for everyone who told me that their dog or cat is named Charlie, I'd be rich! Not something to be offended about.


I have a Maggie and same!
Anonymous

Big faux-pas, OP.

No one wants their child's name associated with a dog's. Next time please keep that information to yourself.

This is partly why I choose non-human names for my pets.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How do you not know this is rude? I literally remember when I was about 7, I met a girl named Darby. That was our dog's name, but I realized it would be rude to tell her that. I was in 1st grade I think!



I get what you are saying, but the way the conversation went down was different than that. We were talking about our children and she shared with me that they named their youngest Ruby because they love old fashioned names. We were actively talking about the name in question so it felt natural to share my own experience/love with that name? I didn’t realize it would steal her thunder.


You didn’t steal her thunder.

You were rude and obnoxious.

There’s a difference.


No she wasn't. If her friend is the type to be upset that her daughter shares a dog's name, she should have chosen something that no one would name their dog. Ruby is right in the cute, two-syllable sweet spot for dogs (see: Lucy, Bella, Lana, Ava, Lila, etc.).


This is hilarious. Those are all human names, and people should avoid them because it's recently become trendy to name dogs human names?


If she's going to get offended that her daughter shares a name with a dog, then yes. There are plenty of girl's names that are never given to dogs.
Anonymous
My name is Carrie and I went to a party where the owners kept yelling at their dog, Carrie, for not behaving. Like...really yelling. It was off-putting. I never ran across that again, but didn't like a dog sharing my name.

Now you know OP. Next time, keep it to yourself.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My name is Carrie and I went to a party where the owners kept yelling at their dog, Carrie, for not behaving. Like...really yelling. It was off-putting. I never ran across that again, but didn't like a dog sharing my name.

Now you know OP. Next time, keep it to yourself.



That is really awkward
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