Happens to our daughter too, we screen shot now and e-mail those in response to missing assignment messages. I can’t figure out if the systems are terrible, the teacher is unorganized, or the teacher doesn’t understand how tow receive documents |
Same here. DD has to screenshot some assignments because they are not really downloadable. Its frustrating because if she doesn't take this extra step the grade would be a zero which really drops her overall course grade. What's happening now with distance learning is that process is being evaluated over content or skill knowledge. I have noticed that the teachers are very lax and generous on the actual content ..ie everything is much easier from a skill/knowledge standpoint but they are very inflexible on process. ie tech problems, teacher problems, submission problems etc. This is a huge win for kids who have a parent checking everything or kids who are very process and instruction oriented. This is a huge loss for kids who don't have a parent watching the process or kids that struggle with executive functioning. For middle school, the emphasis on process is not age appropriate for many, especially boys. I'm surprised that more teachers have not seemed to even attempt to review their own contributions to this problem or attempt to look through the lens of a student. |
You really should take your snark elsewhere. Yes, I know when my kid hasn’t actually done the work and is fibbing about it. She shows me the work and promises she already submitted it. This is a tech problem, not a parenting problem. |
I have two kids in college now. One at a large midwestern university that is very impersonal and another at a East coast slac. One kid has perfect grades, the other has disabilities and struggles. Both kids are at home distance learning. #2. Not true. Both kids have had long multipart projects in different subjects this semester. Both had multipart projects - some group, last year. Both struggled with these and there was much confusion over deadlines. #3. At both universities, my kids have had their professors flex everything because of events impacting the kids getting the material. Both have had teachers reschedule exams and tests and deadlines because they are worried about the kids getting the content. I've been very surprised at how kind and caring the professors have been even at the large impersonal school. |
Yes and yes! My MS boy definitely struggles with the process of submitting. I’ve said to screenshot stuff but he forgets that too. Honesty we shouldn’t even have to make our kids screenshot. The submit process should be smoother so we aren’t all playing catch-up constantly, looking for “missing “ assignments and emailing them in, then having kid remind teacher to look again. I complained about this to the school board at the beginning of the year and was chastised on here ...people said What can the board do? The board can decide on a contract for a better learning submittal and grade tracking system. I can totally see why so many kids have D and F now. How can they keep up with this mess? |
| I hope PPs realize that the DISTRICTS are changing the weighting of the grading, not the teachers. So my syllabus has changed twice this year due to these decisions by the DISTRICT. |
I *hate* this. For my kid with disabilities, this has been an executive functioning nightmare. |
This is the daily life of a parent with a child with disabilities. A bad teacher + a kid with disabilities = little to no education for that student. It's a crap shoot if you get a teacher who understands the first thing about the disability and it's an absolute miracle if they follow the iep and it doesn't matter anyway because the teacher often thinks your kid is "less than" and will never get a good grade. I've seen so many teachers take a hard line with a student with disabilities because the teacher believes they are just dumb or lazy. So many teachers punish kids who have the accommodation of extended time because "it's not fair to the other students". |
Some kids with IEPS are dumb and lazy. I hate to say it, but it is the truth. There is a lot of what teachers call "learned helplessness" especially if they don't have parent support. All of my reminders, emails, visual cues, phone calls home just get ignored by some parents and students. And then it is my fault when the kid isn't doing well. Yes, this is with following the IEP. (I am SpEd certified.) |
You are vile and ignorant. Any teacher who refers to a kid with a disability as dumb or lazy should be fired. You are woefully uneducated. |
Great description, PP. We are suffering through this too. DC's disorganized and the class with the disorganized teacher is taking up 90 percent of their time with daily tears and breakdowns. The other classes are a struggle but with hard work they are going ok. I don't know what to do. Same issue with the teacher being disorganized and not having good technology skills. |
You need to choose another profession, teach. I mean this with kindness. It does not sound like you are cut out for this. |
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I'm sick of all of these teachers who are defending teacher disorganization by pointing out that the children are also disorganized.
Yes, we hold children's hands. Because they need help. They are not little adults. We do not expect children to be equal to or better at their jobs than adults. They are children. You are adults. Get your shit together. |
Thank you. |
+1000 These are not adults. It took you extensive training all summer to 'learn' the tools. Get it together. Parents can't do it all either. We have jobs too. |