Both of my children gay or bi

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know several families who have more than one gay child. My sister's wife has 2 gay siblings (out of 4 siblings total), meaning 3 of the 5 kids are gay. These are people in their late 30s who have faced serious hardships because of their sexuality; it is not a fad. It is possible that having a sibling come out could make another sibling feel safe to come out, but that does not mean the sibling isn't actually gay.

Being gay is not a choice, and so makes sense that it would run in families like many other traits do.

I think for the most part you are correct however, I think for some it can be a choice. There is nothing wrong with it being a choice btw.

So is heterosexuality a choice as well?

Sure, why not?

And how old were you when you consciously decided to be straight?

14

I had feelings for girls but, decided to "go straight"

[Anonymous]

I've observed that some families tend to have more lgbt kids than others. Assume it's somewhat genetic, for some reason.

[Anonymous]

I think there’s a genetic link.

Not as in the genes, but hormone exposure in the uterus.

I’m one and 4 and 3 of us are queer and in same-sex relationships.

[Anonymous]

It's a trend right now.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be surprised. As unpopular the belief is, genes encode a lot. I wouldn't be surprised if sexuality was one of them.

[Anonymous]

I don't know what the stats are today, but when I was in college 20 years ago it was 1 in 10 are gay/bi. So statistically this would be surprising.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's a trend right now.

Was heterosexuality a trend for the last 400 years?

Queer people have always existed. You’re seeing an increase in folks identifying as LGBT because they feel safer (despite you existing). It’s not a trend.

[Anonymous]

That’s one messed up family