Who has the worst DH or DW?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I dunno if mines the worst, but he’s a straight up bully.

The latest thing is he threatens me if I don’t have sex with him. Yesterday morning he announced that since I won’t have sex with him (and I don’t want to because....he’s a bully) we will each be purchasing our own food from now on. I’ll buy my groceries, he’ll buy his, and if we go out to eat we’ll split the check. Oh, and that the food I cook is terrible, so he’ll be cooking for DC from now on. I shrugged and said it’s fine with me.

He bought pizza that night and asked if I wanted any. I said no, I didn’t have any cash to pay him for my slice. He ended up ranting and raving about how my father is a terrible person and probably sexually abused me (he didn’t, my dad is great, H is just upset because dad is the one person who also sees through H’s BS).

H issues an ultimatum he isn’t going to live this way anymore so I either need to get with the program or leave. I say no problem, we can split. Ends with H hysterically crying and sitting alone in his closet.

Sometimes I really can’t believe this is my life and wonder when I’ll wake up from this nightmare.

what in the actual fuk?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I dunno if mines the worst, but he’s a straight up bully.

The latest thing is he threatens me if I don’t have sex with him. Yesterday morning he announced that since I won’t have sex with him (and I don’t want to because....he’s a bully) we will each be purchasing our own food from now on. I’ll buy my groceries, he’ll buy his, and if we go out to eat we’ll split the check. Oh, and that the food I cook is terrible, so he’ll be cooking for DC from now on. I shrugged and said it’s fine with me.

He bought pizza that night and asked if I wanted any. I said no, I didn’t have any cash to pay him for my slice. He ended up ranting and raving about how my father is a terrible person and probably sexually abused me (he didn’t, my dad is great, H is just upset because dad is the one person who also sees through H’s BS).

H issues an ultimatum he isn’t going to live this way anymore so I either need to get with the program or leave. I say no problem, we can split. Ends with H hysterically crying and sitting alone in his closet.

Sometimes I really can’t believe this is my life and wonder when I’ll wake up from this nightmare.

what in the actual fuk?

The OP of that post should divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I dunno if mines the worst, but he’s a straight up bully.

The latest thing is he threatens me if I don’t have sex with him. Yesterday morning he announced that since I won’t have sex with him (and I don’t want to because....he’s a bully) we will each be purchasing our own food from now on. I’ll buy my groceries, he’ll buy his, and if we go out to eat we’ll split the check. Oh, and that the food I cook is terrible, so he’ll be cooking for DC from now on. I shrugged and said it’s fine with me.

He bought pizza that night and asked if I wanted any. I said no, I didn’t have any cash to pay him for my slice. He ended up ranting and raving about how my father is a terrible person and probably sexually abused me (he didn’t, my dad is great, H is just upset because dad is the one person who also sees through H’s BS).

H issues an ultimatum he isn’t going to live this way anymore so I either need to get with the program or leave. I say no problem, we can split. Ends with H hysterically crying and sitting alone in his closet.

Sometimes I really can’t believe this is my life and wonder when I’ll wake up from this nightmare.

Okay I hate it when people reply with what I’m going to reply with, but honestly why are you with this man? Your DC does not need to experience this.

I lost my job due to COVID and I’m trying to find a new one so I can leave. Right now I can’t afford to. Plus we live in a small town with very few opportunities for me. I was hoping to move somewhere with more jobs, but one of the things H threatens me with is that he won’t move, even though it would ruin his own career to stay here.

But yea, it’s so hard seeing what this does to DD. She literally tries to keep us apart and doesn’t want H around. I’m at the point where I’m considering just getting a job at Starbucks or the grocery store so I can get out.

Yes, you should do this.