Who has the worst DH or DW?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DW got an abortion when she was in college. I can't accept that so we're seperating.

The Bible says 1000x about divorce than abortion. You sure have very little empathy for someone you processed to love and honor through sickness or health. I highly suggest regardless of what happens to your marriage that you get counseling to understand why you have so little empathy or understanding about a decision that was made by either a teenager or someone not far from being a teenager. If you are attending a church that condones divorce over empathy, love and understanding, I also suggest that you find a new church.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW got an abortion when she was in college. I can't accept that so we're seperating.

Your wife has it far harder than you do. She deserves a supportive husband. Wish her the best.

+1000 This is a goddess! How dare you sir! She got rid of your excuse for a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Melania. She is repulsed by his paws. REPULSED.

It’s sad you have to comment every time about Trump and the First Lady. Get some new opinions. Your TSD is bad. You need therapy.

[Anonymous]

I dunno if mines the worst, but he’s a straight up bully.

The latest thing is he threatens me if I don’t have sex with him. Yesterday morning he announced that since I won’t have sex with him (and I don’t want to because....he’s a bully) we will each be purchasing our own food from now on. I’ll buy my groceries, he’ll buy his, and if we go out to eat we’ll split the check. Oh, and that the food I cook is terrible, so he’ll be cooking for DC from now on. I shrugged and said it’s fine with me.

He bought pizza that night and asked if I wanted any. I said no, I didn’t have any cash to pay him for my slice. He ended up ranting and raving about how my father is a terrible person and probably sexually abused me (he didn’t, my dad is great, H is just upset because dad is the one person who also sees through H’s BS).

H issues an ultimatum he isn’t going to live this way anymore so I either need to get with the program or leave. I say no problem, we can split. Ends with H hysterically crying and sitting alone in his closet.

Sometimes I really can’t believe this is my life and wonder when I’ll wake up from this nightmare.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I dunno if mines the worst, but he’s a straight up bully.

The latest thing is he threatens me if I don’t have sex with him. Yesterday morning he announced that since I won’t have sex with him (and I don’t want to because....he’s a bully) we will each be purchasing our own food from now on. I’ll buy my groceries, he’ll buy his, and if we go out to eat we’ll split the check. Oh, and that the food I cook is terrible, so he’ll be cooking for DC from now on. I shrugged and said it’s fine with me.

He bought pizza that night and asked if I wanted any. I said no, I didn’t have any cash to pay him for my slice. He ended up ranting and raving about how my father is a terrible person and probably sexually abused me (he didn’t, my dad is great, H is just upset because dad is the one person who also sees through H’s BS).

H issues an ultimatum he isn’t going to live this way anymore so I either need to get with the program or leave. I say no problem, we can split. Ends with H hysterically crying and sitting alone in his closet.

Sometimes I really can’t believe this is my life and wonder when I’ll wake up from this nightmare.

Okay I hate it when people reply with what I’m going to reply with, but honestly why are you with this man? Your DC does not need to experience this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I dunno if mines the worst, but he’s a straight up bully.

The latest thing is he threatens me if I don’t have sex with him. Yesterday morning he announced that since I won’t have sex with him (and I don’t want to because....he’s a bully) we will each be purchasing our own food from now on. I’ll buy my groceries, he’ll buy his, and if we go out to eat we’ll split the check. Oh, and that the food I cook is terrible, so he’ll be cooking for DC from now on. I shrugged and said it’s fine with me.

He bought pizza that night and asked if I wanted any. I said no, I didn’t have any cash to pay him for my slice. He ended up ranting and raving about how my father is a terrible person and probably sexually abused me (he didn’t, my dad is great, H is just upset because dad is the one person who also sees through H’s BS).

H issues an ultimatum he isn’t going to live this way anymore so I either need to get with the program or leave. I say no problem, we can split. Ends with H hysterically crying and sitting alone in his closet.

Sometimes I really can’t believe this is my life and wonder when I’ll wake up from this nightmare.

Okay I hate it when people reply with what I’m going to reply with, but honestly why are you with this man? Your DC does not need to experience this.

I lost my job due to COVID and I’m trying to find a new one so I can leave. Right now I can’t afford to. Plus we live in a small town with very few opportunities for me. I was hoping to move somewhere with more jobs, but one of the things H threatens me with is that he won’t move, even though it would ruin his own career to stay here.

But yea, it’s so hard seeing what this does to DD. She literally tries to keep us apart and doesn’t want H around. I’m at the point where I’m considering just getting a job at Starbucks or the grocery store so I can get out.

[Anonymous]

Dh was a coke addict for 3 years. Spent probably at least 60k on it. Developed psychosis and claimed I hired helicopters and drivers to follow him. Claimed my family sexually abused and pimps out our kids. Also that I’m the godfather of the mafia and won’t let him join, so he left me with 2 kids instead of going back to his psychiatrist. His family is useless in getting him help.

[Anonymous]

DW has gained 45 points, now has (understandably!) low body image, but does NOTHING about it. Should I hide the Halloween candy or just let her grow to infinity?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DW got an abortion when she was in college. I can't accept that so we're seperating.

She is getting the better end of that deal.

Who died and put you in charge her HER body before you even knew her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DW is the product of a dis functional family of origin. Anxious attachment style. further compounded by general anxiety disorder, denial of reality, lack of maturity and relationship skills. She only cares about others needs, including our kids, after her needs are met.

But that’s what happens when you marry a booty call. Before me she was another persons booty call. May soon be ex wife.

YOu sound do disrespectful of women!

Now you are complaining about her inadequacy in all of the qualities that you disregarded when choosing a spouse. Boo hoo. Try getting some values buddy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DW has gained 45 points, now has (understandably!) low body image, but does NOTHING about it. Should I hide the Halloween candy or just let her grow to infinity?

Sounds like you are not being supportive or helping her self esteem at all. Your disdain is palpable.

Poor woman.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I dunno if mines the worst, but he’s a straight up bully.

The latest thing is he threatens me if I don’t have sex with him. Yesterday morning he announced that since I won’t have sex with him (and I don’t want to because....he’s a bully) we will each be purchasing our own food from now on. I’ll buy my groceries, he’ll buy his, and if we go out to eat we’ll split the check. Oh, and that the food I cook is terrible, so he’ll be cooking for DC from now on. I shrugged and said it’s fine with me.

He bought pizza that night and asked if I wanted any. I said no, I didn’t have any cash to pay him for my slice. He ended up ranting and raving about how my father is a terrible person and probably sexually abused me (he didn’t, my dad is great, H is just upset because dad is the one person who also sees through H’s BS).

H issues an ultimatum he isn’t going to live this way anymore so I either need to get with the program or leave. I say no problem, we can split. Ends with H hysterically crying and sitting alone in his closet.

Sometimes I really can’t believe this is my life and wonder when I’ll wake up from this nightmare.

Okay I hate it when people reply with what I’m going to reply with, but honestly why are you with this man? Your DC does not need to experience this.

I lost my job due to COVID and I’m trying to find a new one so I can leave. Right now I can’t afford to. Plus we live in a small town with very few opportunities for me. I was hoping to move somewhere with more jobs, but one of the things H threatens me with is that he won’t move, even though it would ruin his own career to stay here.

But yea, it’s so hard seeing what this does to DD. She literally tries to keep us apart and doesn’t want H around. I’m at the point where I’m considering just getting a job at Starbucks or the grocery store so I can get out.

Do you have family you can live with? You are breaking the human being you were entrusted with by keeping her in this circumstance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dh was a coke addict for 3 years. Spent probably at least 60k on it. Developed psychosis and claimed I hired helicopters and drivers to follow him. Claimed my family sexually abused and pimps out our kids. Also that I’m the godfather of the mafia and won’t let him join, so he left me with 2 kids instead of going back to his psychiatrist. His family is useless in getting him help.

Is Ray Liotta going to play him in the made-for-TV movie?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dh was a coke addict for 3 years. Spent probably at least 60k on it. Developed psychosis and claimed I hired helicopters and drivers to follow him. Claimed my family sexually abused and pimps out our kids. Also that I’m the godfather of the mafia and won’t let him join, so he left me with 2 kids instead of going back to his psychiatrist. His family is useless in getting him help.

Is Ray Liotta going to play him in the made-for-TV movie?

PP here. I watched Goodfellas recently

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DW got an abortion when she was in college. I can't accept that so we're seperating.

Wow. Your wife definitely wins for having the worst DH.