Jen Hatmaker

[Anonymous]

This is such a rapid filing and I have not known anyone in real life who does this so quickly. Even if it is a particularly bad betrayal as mentioned in previous comments. I respect her right to do whatever she feels she must do...I hope she is able to give herself time to process and feel and grieve. There is no shortcut there. Maybe this is where being high profile is really relevant: She may feel she wants to be severed from him as soon as possible versus living in the gray where people may continue to be curious, impinge on them, etc. If it was sleazy i am sure she wants no part of it and It must be deeply humiliating (I've been there and we are not hi profile) so I get the need for action to get control and take back one's power as well as to retaliate and punish. Which is completely understandable if he strayed.

[Anonymous]

Does anyone know why Jen doesn't post any pictures of Remy? Did I miss something?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone know why Jen doesn't post any pictures of Remy? Did I miss something?

She was in a photo a week ago?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone know why Jen doesn't post any pictures of Remy? Did I miss something?

She was in a photo a week ago?

She’s also a teen who may not like her face splashed all over the place. I can see Jen respecting that.

[Anonymous]

She posted a cute story about Brandon on July 9 and on July 31 was her “deeply hurting post” after about 2 weeks of radio silence.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does anyone know why Jen doesn't post any pictures of Remy? Did I miss something?

She was in a photo a week ago?

Yep

[Anonymous]

I think he must have done something pretty atrocious, maybe even illegal. He posted fairly frequently on twitter and went totally silent as of July 8.

Here was Jen's post on Father's day this June:

"We won the absolute Dad Lottery in this family. Dads matter. Good dads are everything. You don’t need money or fancy things or expensive trips or anything: give your kids a dad who loves them well and they have everything.

I am the daughter, daughter-in-law, sister, and wife of the greatest men. They love well. Nothing else matters. Happy Father’s Day to these absolute legends. Lucky us."

This all happened pretty fast, or she's been totally faking it for awhile. For her daughter to change her last name and her to file for divorce all so abruptly, something pretty bad must have happened.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think he must have done something pretty atrocious, maybe even illegal. He posted fairly frequently on twitter and went totally silent as of July 8.

Here was Jen's post on Father's day this June:

"We won the absolute Dad Lottery in this family. Dads matter. Good dads are everything. You don’t need money or fancy things or expensive trips or anything: give your kids a dad who loves them well and they have everything.

I am the daughter, daughter-in-law, sister, and wife of the greatest men. They love well. Nothing else matters. Happy Father’s Day to these absolute legends. Lucky us."

This all happened pretty fast, or she's been totally faking it for awhile. For her daughter to change her last name and her to file for divorce all so abruptly, something pretty bad must have happened.

Where did you see that a daughter changed her last name? Sidney?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think he must have done something pretty atrocious, maybe even illegal. He posted fairly frequently on twitter and went totally silent as of July 8.

Here was Jen's post on Father's day this June:

"We won the absolute Dad Lottery in this family. Dads matter. Good dads are everything. You don’t need money or fancy things or expensive trips or anything: give your kids a dad who loves them well and they have everything.

I am the daughter, daughter-in-law, sister, and wife of the greatest men. They love well. Nothing else matters. Happy Father’s Day to these absolute legends. Lucky us."

This all happened pretty fast, or she's been totally faking it for awhile. For her daughter to change her last name and her to file for divorce all so abruptly, something pretty bad must have happened.

Where did you see that a daughter changed her last name? Sidney?

Yes. Not sure if it's true. From reddit:
https://www.reddit.com/r/OpenChristian/comments/ihxzsa/im_worried_about_jen_hatmaker/

[Anonymous]

She needs to speak with a lawyer and maybe a publicist and figure out what she can say and how to say it. When you make your fortune selling family, keeping it "real" and marriage is worth fighting for and then you vagueblog and quietly file for divorce you have to accept your fans will wonder. If she led a quiet life or kept her marriage out of her money making then she would owe people nothing. Also, she could potentially destroy him with people's speculation. If it's so bad she quickly filed for divorce and her daughter wanted to change her name you wonder about things like...love child? sexual harassment? rape? sexual abuse? abuse of power? stealing? I get the sense she would work through an affair if it were brief with no real attachment. If he came out as gay she would be his BFF and make a whole story out of their new type of family. At this point whatever he did is likely not as bad as what some fangirls may start to assume.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She filed for divorce on 8/21. It's in the public court records

Thank you for this. I have been dying to know what is going on since her first “we’re deeply hurting in our lives” post last month. I narrowed it down to Brandon based on subsequent posts with everyone else in her life. Affair for sure. I love Jen, and while she always gushed about Brandon, she kept it real too, always being honest about how hard marriage can be. Sad.

Suprise, surprise...another mommy blogger's marriage bites the dust.

This is to be expected. Bloggers=narcissist and phony.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She filed for divorce on 8/21. It's in the public court records

Thank you for this. I have been dying to know what is going on since her first “we’re deeply hurting in our lives” post last month. I narrowed it down to Brandon based on subsequent posts with everyone else in her life. Affair for sure. I love Jen, and while she always gushed about Brandon, she kept it real too, always being honest about how hard marriage can be. Sad.

Suprise, surprise...another mommy blogger's marriage bites the dust.

This is to be expected. Bloggers=narcissist and phony.

husband had an affair:

From the link pp posted:

"friend pointed out that her daughter changed her last name on her Instagram profile from Hatmaker to King (mom’s maiden name). That was a dead giveaway that dad messed up big time."

1 day ago
I just went to instagram and now Sydney has deleted her profile altogether. I’m so sad for this family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She posted a cute story about Brandon on July 9 and on July 31 was her “deeply hurting post” after about 2 weeks of radio silence.

She most likely was blindsided with news of an affair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She posted a cute story about Brandon on July 9 and on July 31 was her “deeply hurting post” after about 2 weeks of radio silence.

She most likely was blindsided with news of an affair.

Been there recently. Awful pain like nothing you can imagine. I couldn’t eat for a month. I could barely function.

Zero signs. Everyone in our circle was absolutely shocked.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So 8 weeks ago she does a loving anniversary post to her husband. Four weeks ago she starts vague-blogging about something awful. A week and a half ago she allegedly files for divorce.

I cannot tell you how many times I have seen someone put a lovey dovey FB or IG post up and only to find out they are in couple's therapy, separated not long after or whatever. All the world is a stage with people putting on crazy performances.

This is why I think it was a bit deeper than just cheating. A short term affair, emotional affair, or one night stand doesn't always end up tipping over the 25 year old apple cart so dramatically/quickly. A love child or long term relationship type of affair absolutely could though.

It takes balls to date a married man who publicly is happily married with five kids. There's no claim of ignorance by the OW.

She got off on it, I'm sure. Those type of women always do. There is a sickness inside thinking they 'won' against a beautiful woman that seemingly had it all.

What these homewreckers fail to realize is that what they got is a disgusting cheater that will do it to them down the road. #winning. NOT