And ASD in the DSM is divided into categories too, both in terms of support needs, and whether it does or doesn't come with things such as ID or a speech impairment. |
Yes it's true they all bleed into each other, but that doesn't mean it's completely arbitrary. ADHD can sometimes look like anxiety, but the treatments are totally different. GAD, panic disorder and separation anxiety can overlap, but they are also distinct diagnoses or, if you prefer, conditions. My kid has ASD, ADHD and GAD, but definitely does not have panic disorder or separation anxiety. In our case, it doesn't change from day to day or doctor to doctor. If you get diagnosed with the condition of high blood pressure, which is arbitrarily defined as BP higher than 140/90, nobody has any problem with the arbitrary cutoff or argues about whether it's a diagnosis or a condition. But when it comes to ASD, people do in fact question whether it is "real" or not. Or as in the case of one of the PP's above, feel qualified to question whether a kid she never met has any problem at all. |
With Blood Pressure, there is a clear method of checking and diagnosing. ASD is a subjective checklist done by others and its easily skewed if one wants it to be. It also discredits the kids who are moderately to severely impacted with kids mixed in with very minor things or just a bit quirky. When you say ASD, many just assume very high functioning and quirky when the true ASD (or at least for me) are those far more impacted. |
Leo Kanner, one of the first to identify autism in 1943 insisted for his entire career that autism was rare and always very severe. He dominated the field and brushed aside all evidence that there were milder forms and that it wasn't rare. As a result millions of children were misdiagnosed or just written off and never got the help they needed. This tragic error was only realized in the late 70s and early 1980's and it took us another 20 more years to learn just how many children were missed. My kid is not "a bit quirky." I can only wish that were so. Her ASD is just as "true" as anyone else's which also does not "discredit" any other child's problem. Your assumptions are based on an 80-year old medical error and you might as well start smoking because some doctors back then thought it was good for you. |
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I dunno, I have a child like OP's. It feels very subjective to me. DS8 has ADHD, sensory issues, and lots of delays due to prematurity and low birth weight. Or was it ASD all along? Ped, dev ped, neuropsych all say no; psych says maybe; school insists yes. I could make a case either way, but it doesn't feel clear cut and never has.
We will do another neuropsych in the next year, and I am struggling because I really want to find a place that will objectively evaluate, because at this point, I want a definitive answer. And everyone seems to think that's crazy too. Yes, at the end of the day, your kid is your kid and you support whatever needs they have—but I don't blame anyone for questioning the process. I expect it will continue to evolve. |
Yes there can be borderline cases, and we had some disagreements among professionals as to whether my kid has ASD or not. Even after a neuropsych said no, many others still said yes. Neuropsych did not do an ADOS, which is the best test we have for autism. That was a mistake. Best practice is to use a team approach of people experienced with ASD and including an ADOS. A lot of the confusion comes from people getting diagnoses without using best practices. We ended up going to David Black who is very experienced and he gave us the ASD diagnosis. We showed his report to other professionals to see what they thought. My kid also has ADHD, which can overlap with ASD, and we had some detailed discussions with another professional as to how to tell the difference between an ADHD behavior vs. ASD. We did found the ASD designation useful. When talking to new therapists, it's a lot easier to say your kid has ASD than to give a laundry list of problems that end up sounding like ASD but supposedly aren't. Also, it became easier to select professionals. The ones experienced in ASD understand my child better than the ones who aren't. |
Has anyone had Dr. Black NOT give an ASD diagnosis? |
| When Kanner died and was no longer able to keep the definition meaningful it collapsed into a catchall |
Yes, it’s a spectrum and yes, understanding of what ASD is continues to evolve. I don’t see how that “discredits” anyone. My child is level 2 and clearly not just “quirky”. If anything, these sort of debates sound to me like parents of less impacted kids who want to emphasize how much better off their child is than mine. And maybe they are right, but I still find it hurtful. |
Or, your kid has ASD, theirs is misdiagnosed or so mild the diagnosis really isn't appropriate. There are clear cases of ASD, but I question so many of the new high functioning where the concerns as the kids get are so mild. ASD cannot be cured. Kids can get more functioning with services and parental help but if a child is cured they are misdiagnosed, especially if it was an early diagnosis. |
He kept the definition so restricted that kids were being diagnosed with childhood schizophrenia and mental retardation instead. Meanwhile desperate parents were being blamed for being "refrigerator moms." |
Or maybe kids you've never met have a condition you have no training or experience with. |
They generally don't look at biological factors or have an alternative diagnosis/explanation. Everything just gets lumped together. I would not consider that ASD. I'd consider that prematurity and what happens with that. |
Some of us do have professional training and experience in it. Some of us have it personally too. You may not, but do not assume it about everyone. That is how I knew what was going on with my child, which is why I got help early on and mine is thriving. |
Okay, so you knew enough to diagnose your own child. That still doesn't qualify someone to make judgments about other children you've never met, claiming that their concerns are "mild." Even if you've met them, you may not know what that kid is dealing with in daily life. My kid is considered high functioning, so the concerns are "mild" only compared to lower functioning kids, but she is nowhere near NT. My kid has improved with help, but nobody speaks of a "cure." The most they talk about is that as an adult she may be able to function well enough to be independent. That's not a cure, that's just learning enough skills to "pass." And I don't even know if we will get that. |