My child is 12 and his differences were always there but became more apparent around 4th grade. He spends hours in his room engaging in repetitive activities (think spinning wheels on a toy car). He can talk for hours about the how of things (the route he used to get to school, how to engage in his favorite extracurricular) but struggles with the why of things. He's fully mainstreamed in school. He excels in above grade level math but is failing history. He really, really wants friends but doesn't know how to initiate conversations. From what you've said, I don't see red flags for autism. |
There are a lot of variables in that summary and life outcomes are not a good indicator. ASD kids can have good outcomes, NT kids can have bad outcomes. Intervention improves outcomes, but does a very successful intervention mean there was no problem to begin with? In my case, my kid is definitely having problems right now that would be much worse with no intervention. |
We did years of intervention with great providers but I am not convinced my child would not still have been ok and doing as well as he is with them. However, I wasn't going to risk not doing that the time and regret it later on. I think they helped some but time was really what helped. |
Many of us have that experience. Child find should not be giving diagnosis. If its MERLD it will tease out later, usually 5-6-7, however most will just say its ASD as they don't get MERLD. Its easier for places like Child Find to lump all these kids together, same services regardless of their need. |
Well, in terms of how ASD works vs. other type of non-NT social interactions, ASD kids have a poor theory of mind. Theory of mind is "the ability to attribute mental states—beliefs, intents, desires, emotions, knowledge, etc.—to oneself, and to others, and to understand that others have beliefs, desires, intentions, and perspectives that are different from one's own." My high functioning ASD kid has good expressive language but has trouble with this very thing. It's something that the ADOS test looks for directly. A kid with an expressive language disorder only would have good theory of mind but trouble with verbal expression. Therr are ways to test for this, but it's harder to do in very young kids, which accounts for some misdiagnoses. |
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I'm not sure what to think about this subject. My dd is 4.5 yrs old, and has had 'red flags' for autism since she was a year old. She's been in EI and now is in speech/language therapy and OT.
Her current diagnosis is expressive and receptive language impairment (used to be MERLD I believe?), sensory processing disorder, and fine motor skills delay. She is also not at all potty trained...she doesn't know how to play with other kids other than 'chase me'. Some mild flapping and toe walking. But she's also warm, funny and sweet. She is finally getting a full eval in April-it's been a looonnng wait! I mean, she does seem to fit the profile for an ASD diagnosis. But maybe she's just an anxious, quirky kid with a language delay. I don't know-I hope they do! |
You are essentially arguing that you know more about a kid you never met than his own mother. |
I applaud your ability to split hairs. |
NP here- the description above fits my child too, and when he was 6 he got an ASD diagnosis from Children’s National. He also has ADHD, dysgraphia and gross and fine motor challenges. He can talk at obnoxious length about many subjects and will switch to a new one if someone appears bored. We are doing social skills groups to help with the theory of mind and emotional regulation. We’ll see where we end up diagnostically. The one benefit of the ASD label is that the school doesn’t fight IEP eligibility. Implementation is a whole different issue. |
well thanks for proving OP's point. If your kid socializes normally yet has an ASD diagnosis, it's very hard to understand. |
The bolded is not normal behavior. It may sound from a single sentence description that it is merely quirky behavior, when you actually interact with an ASD kid over time, you often see that it is more than that. |
I agree with the PP here. Mental health disorders are absolutely real things. They can be devastating. And it's important that we are able to develop terms to describe them, and to help people connect with solutions. But most conditions in mental health are continuum disorders meaning that they kind of bleed into each other. My kid has severe debilitating anxiety that leads to, among other things, school refusal. There is no question that he has a real disorder, and needs real treatment, or that his symptoms are real. But does he have GAD, or separation anxiety, or a phobia of school or a panic disorder? Which term describes him best? Well, that depends on who sees him, and when they see him, and what symptoms he describes that day, or what boxes he checks on their forms. A good psychiatrist or therapist will know to look for treatments that fit him, not just a code on a billing sheet. Luckily, since many of the conditions overlap, it's not surprising that many of the treatments overlap too, so he can be treated consistently, even if his Dr. keeps changing what billing code they use. So, his condition is real. The terms we use to describe it (the diagnoses) are artificial divisions created to meet the needs of the medical profession and the insurance industry. |
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Many of the terms we use to describe disabilities describe a wide variety of symptoms. I'm a special ed teacher, I've got several kids with a CP diagnosis on my caseload. Some have high tone (spasticity) some have very low tone, some have tone that fluctuates. Some have problems with every muscle in their body, one has problems with only one hand. Some also have other conditions like cortical vision impairment, intellectual disability, seizure disorder or autism, and some don't. Some need constant adult support and highly specialized technology like an eye gaze communication devices and a power chair with tilt in space feature, and some travel independently in the community and only need a few minor pieces of technology like the keyboard on their iPhone set for one handed typing.
Having the CP diagnosis is helpful, because it helps them gain eligibility for special ed services, helps connect them to the right doctors and therapists, and communicates to new professionals what it isn't (e.g. while a kid with CP and a kid with JIA both may have stiffness and limited range of motion, they require very different treatments. So, if a kid with stiffness and limited range of motion comes into the ER, knowing that they have a CP diagnosis can help you decide whether to call for a rheumatology consult). But that doesn't mean that knowing that a kid has CP tells you what they need, or how to treat. It just tells you where to start that search. ASD is similar. |
Ok, maybe it's quirky behavior. But to say that a kid who is social, has tons of friends, and has some quirky social behaviors is ASD indeed raises OP's question about the ulility of the diagnosis. I can believe that the PP's child may benefit from additional classroom supports, it is indeed confusing to say a kid with no social skills issues *impacting his ability to socialize* has a social-communication disorder ... |
I mean, this is not really a clarifying comment. In fact, CP is divided into many subcategories (spastic, ataxic, athetoid). I think what I and others are saying is that ASD is now just a big umbrella, and doesn't really seem that helpful when totally different kids have the same diagnosis. |