Dating divorced dads....their enthusiasm level in bed (nonexplicit)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well duh, they have had sex in months or years.
And why is that? When a spouse loses respect, trust, or connection with you, you stop having sex. You have to repair the respect, trust and connection to resume having sex.

That process is too difficult for some so they’d rather call it whites and bang new women after their divorce.

It is always better to spend time and effort getting new women than it is to attempt to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

Unless, say, you have and like your kids, among other very minor reasons. What a dumb response.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well duh, they have had sex in months or years.
And why is that? When a spouse loses respect, trust, or connection with you, you stop having sex. You have to repair the respect, trust and connection to resume having sex.

That process is too difficult for some so they’d rather call it whites and bang new women after their divorce.

It is always better to spend time and effort getting new women than it is to attempt to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

I dunno, undivided assets? Full time with your children vs. part time? Maybe you don't value it. People are different.

Our assets, except for the house, were separate before the divorce. Financially I'll be better off without her. And I'll have 50/50 custody.

The bottom line is, no matter what I valued, she got a vote, too. She voted to make no effort to repair the marriage. Didn't matter what I did, nothing got any traction with her.

In most cases I’ve seen you end up spending more quality time with your kids when you’re divorced. You purge the junk time ignoring them and make it count.

Completely told from the point of view of the parents, not the kids.

[Anonymous]

LOL Yes stop throwing leg!!! Some people go for quantity, others for quality

And some people are married to sexless hags. If you want to see who, go look at your husband.

[Anonymous]

Op here. Thinking. Maybe guys in their thirties and forties who dont have kids are more attractive to women, because they dont have as much baggage, and so the single guys find it easier to get action and thus are less excited?

Or maybe are excited that they are having sex with a wonderful divorced woman who turns them on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well duh, they have had sex in months or years.
And why is that? When a spouse loses respect, trust, or connection with you, you stop having sex. You have to repair the respect, trust and connection to resume having sex.

That process is too difficult for some so they’d rather call it whites and bang new women after their divorce.

It is always better to spend time and effort getting new women than it is to attempt to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

Unless, say, you have and like your kids, among other very minor reasons. What a dumb response.

LOL whenever some woman complains about her husband on DCUM, invariably the advice is "divorce him, your kids will be better off if you're out of an unhappy marriage" but apparently that advice does not apply to men. Try again, dingbat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well duh, they have had sex in months or years.
And why is that? When a spouse loses respect, trust, or connection with you, you stop having sex. You have to repair the respect, trust and connection to resume having sex.

That process is too difficult for some so they’d rather call it whites and bang new women after their divorce.

It is always better to spend time and effort getting new women than it is to attempt to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

I dunno, undivided assets? Full time with your children vs. part time? Maybe you don't value it. People are different.

Our assets, except for the house, were separate before the divorce. Financially I'll be better off without her. And I'll have 50/50 custody.

The bottom line is, no matter what I valued, she got a vote, too. She voted to make no effort to repair the marriage. Didn't matter what I did, nothing got any traction with her.

What a weird response. If I shoot one of your eyes out, would you be pleased you still have the other one left? If I chop off one of your legs and arms, would you be like, I still have 50% of them?

100% is better than 50%. Always.

Also, unless your wife brings no income, I don't believe you'd be better off financially. Two incomes afford a better lifestyle than one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Being with a woman who is excited about you is MUCH more exciting than being with a woman who isn't.

This

[Anonymous]

I am reminded of a quote my brother always says about women... "Can't live with them, can't kill them."

[Anonymous]

1

00% is better than 50%. Always.

So, having cancer in 100% of your breast is better than having in 50% of it?

Math can hard, dear poster.

Please do not try if you do not know how to us it.

[Anonymous]

100% is better than 50%. Always.

So, having cancer in 100% of your breast is better than having in 50% of it?

Math can hard, dear poster.

Please do not try if you do not know how to us it.

So can posting if the "1" appears before the "00%".

[Anonymous]

this is why I slept with old/divorced men in my wild youth. they were so excited to be with me and they were moderately better at getting me off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

100% is better than 50%. Always.

So, having cancer in 100% of your breast is better than having in 50% of it?

Math can hard, dear poster.

Please do not try if you do not know how to us it.

So can posting if the "1" appears before the "00%".

I dunno about math but this word salad makes zero sense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well duh, they have had sex in months or years.
And why is that? When a spouse loses respect, trust, or connection with you, you stop having sex. You have to repair the respect, trust and connection to resume having sex.

That process is too difficult for some so they’d rather call it whites and bang new women after their divorce.

It is always better to spend time and effort getting new women than it is to attempt to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

I dunno, undivided assets? Full time with your children vs. part time? Maybe you don't value it. People are different.

Our assets, except for the house, were separate before the divorce. Financially I'll be better off without her. And I'll have 50/50 custody.

The bottom line is, no matter what I valued, she got a vote, too. She voted to make no effort to repair the marriage. Didn't matter what I did, nothing got any traction with her.

What a weird response. If I shoot one of your eyes out, would you be pleased you still have the other one left? If I chop off one of your legs and arms, would you be like, I still have 50% of them?

100% is better than 50%. Always.

Also, unless your wife brings no income, I don't believe you'd be better off financially. Two incomes afford a better lifestyle than one.

"If I shoot one of your eyes out, would you be pleased you still have the other one left? If I chop off one of your legs and arms, would you be like, I still have 50% of them?" -- in those specific cases, yeah!

"100% is better than 50%. Always. " -- Nope. It depends. 50% in a happy home is better than 100% in a violent, constant conflict home, for example. And this is also irrelevant. As I said, she got a vote in the decision to divorce.

"Also, unless your wife brings no income, I don't believe you'd be better off financially. Two incomes afford a better lifestyle than one."

LOL, no, just the opposite, I'd be much worse off if she had no income, because then I'd have to pay huge child support. She makes enough that there is no spousal or child support. After the divorce, she will have to pay for things that she does not have to pay for now, which means more money for me.

[Anonymous]

I tell my friends that if they want to be totally worshipped and devoured in bed, go for a divorced dad or long time married one. They are almost all sex starved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:this is why I slept with old/divorced men in my wild youth. they were so excited to be with me and they were moderately better at getting me off.

Interesting. I also slept with older men and I found them disappointing overall. They were very sexy in the workplace, but off the clock they were pretty much the same as guys my own age.