He wants me to want to.
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Anonymous
| Tell your DH to read DCUM for a week. Here he will learn that practically ALL married sex is "duty sex". Not many women "want to" (at least not with their husbands). Wow your DH has no clue about marital sex in the real world! |
Anonymous
| Before we had our first baby I prepared my husband for the no sex period both before and after the delivery date. The total window was something like 6-7 months but I can't be exact in that it was over twenty years ago. Up until the baby arrived I was very happy to "satisfy" my DH a couple of different ways but afterwards my interest level was zippo for a bunch of reasons. It wasn't until around month 5 that I got my groove back, thank God, and my husband was able to release his pent up demand. After a few weeks of 3-4 times a week we got back into a very nice 1-2 times a week. I'm lucky in that my husband was willing to wait for it to be right for me but I'm sure he was running out of patience. |