Damn, she’s onto us. Or she’s off her meds. One of those. |
I'm a 40yo divorced guy. I would've been fine with this in the year following my divorce. Now, I'm in a relationship with a single mom with 100% custody, who I see alone on dates once a week (plus sometimes for lunch) and a couple times more on the weekend with our kids. But it's definitely a relationship, she's my girlfriend and I just intro her and her daughter to my grandfather. We dated for a year until we met each other's kids, and I wouldn't have known at first that it would have progressed, but the more I got to know her, the more I loved her. My advice is just to always he honest where you're at and what you're looking for. The rest will either work or not work. And, go online. Its better than stalking guys IRL. |
+1. I wrote earlier. Divorced dad. I have this type of relationship. She’s my girlfriend and I am committed. It’s fine because I get to focus on my kids and career. We love each other and have lots of fun and take trips when our schedules align. |
Right? Screw that I don’t. I’m having a much better time now and found out there are lots of women attracted to me. My marriage had me in a place thinking I was unlikeable. Not the case. It’s not as much fun as you’d like as you have commitments, but if they understand that it works out nicely. I won’t remarry for a while |
Let’s not beat around the bush, your dating pool is cut drastically being divorced. Lots of single men and women don’t understand the hectic schedule. Or they demand to be out first and that isn’t possible most of the time. But yes, your arrangement sounds good. I’d do it. |
As a man my dating pool has never been better post divorce. Once you hit 40s and the divorced women enter the dating market there’s lots of choices. And divorced women often have feeer strange hang ups because they aren’t looking for Mister Right. |
. This silly bitch does not have a clue. I had primary custody of kids and was subject to the same type of schedule restrictions that most divorced women are. Meeting someone once week under these circumstances would have been great. |
Everyone is saying they like this situation, so where do we meet you? |
We’re online, eating at the bar in a restaurant, taking kids to go see Black Panther, meetup hikes, bike trail. |