Cannot say I am the love of her life

[Anonymous]

This is real life not a movie. Grow up.

[Anonymous]

This is a power play, not a love play. He says jump and she has to respond appropriately - 20 years of marriage be darned. If I were DW, I wouldn't like it either.

This certainly isn't what it means to find and maintain a relationships with "the love of your life."

[Anonymous]

You sound like a needy, young woman. Do you watch lot of chick flicks and cry a lot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am OP. If we were happy and things were going well I would not be considering leaving over this. But the fact is that for many years we have had a variety of issues and I’m just trying to decide is this worth investing time and energy into. Not so much a litmus test as an attempt to get valuable information from her regarding our relationship and how she views me.

So what you're saying is, you're looking for an excuse to leave without looking like the bad guy, and you've latched on to this since you can't seem to find anything else. Got it!