Anonymous wrote:Is the coworker bigger? Maybe they can't reach to wipe properly.
My cousin's daughter stayed with us a few summers ago and I noticed she smelled a bit like poo. She was on the bigger side; she was actually staying with us to take part in a children's hospital obesity study. In doing her laundry, I noticed her undies had lots of 'skid marks' in them. I brought it up with my cousin who was very, 'oh, yeah, that happens, forgot to tell you. Want me to make her do her own laundry?"

She had no idea why it happened and didn't seem to care. I tried to be as gentle as possible. I handed her the laundry to put away and said, "hey, I noticed some marks in your undies. Is there a certain brand of TP you like? We can go to the store." Turns out, it was a mobility thing and she couldn't reach. Very heartbreaking.