DP. Get over yourself. I don't care if you are a scientist, you haven't had any person interaction with OP's child so you have no clue what clearly was the cause. Whatever the reason, OP is advising people to be on the lookout. That's a good reminder. |
OP here. and, also, See is called observation. I observed this human to grow detached after the SSRI does was increased. As the detachment grew, she isolated herself from family and friends, culminating in a suicide attempt. Based on these observations, coupled with the reversal with the reduction of the SSRI, I conclude that the change in outlook was the result of the increase in SSRI. I said the exact same thing with less formal language before, and two pp's back criticized me. |
I think this is an interesting idea as well. I've heard that often right before a person commits suicide, they often seem "better" to their loved ones and the suicide take family members by surprise. Suicide seems to take lives as depression sufferers are on the mend. This is why we need to be watchful of our loved ones with serious depression even throughout their recovery. |
Absolutely not what I said
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When my sister attempted suicide shortly after being put on a new medication (and she had seemed so much better, with more energy) this is what her therapist told me. Hugs to you OP - it was very kind and brave of you to share your story. Continued healing to your DD! |
-Your DD had a history of depression/anxiety and self-harm. -You put her on an SSRI and it worked well for about a year -After about a year, the depression and self-harming behaviors returned -Her medication was increased and she was less argumentative and 'moderately' pleasant to be around but still not typical (lost her edge/no dark humor). -Within 3 weeks after the increased dose, her grades were dropping -After 1-2 months on the increased dose, your DD attempts suicide -You blame the SSRI I'm really sorry for what you're going through but you are deluding yourself. Either the increased dose or the medication itself wasn't sufficient. Your DD's depression was still not controlled as evidenced by her continued self-harm. People who self-injure as your DD does are 7x more likely to attempt suicide. Even if SSRIs lead to increased risk of suicide in a very small number, your DD doesn't meet the criteria for those who are affected. I understand the temptation to blame someone/something for what happened but the SSRI did not cause or lead your DD to attempt suicide. |
Yes, and there are actually life changing effects to waiting to start an SSRI while you experiment with "talk therapy." Many (most) people who are clinically depressed don't need to talk it out. They have a serious serotonin imbalance that needs to be corrected. When I was depressed, I didn't need to talk it over with someone. I needed medication to correct my brain chemistry, and fast. After three weeks of taking Prozac, I felt like a normal person again. It probably saved my life. So I would say to you that talk therapy is not appropriate for everyone. Many clinically depressed people simply need to up their serotonin. Just as a diabetic needs insulin, the depressed brain needs serotonin. Talking about it does nothing to correct the imbalance within the brain. I'll stick to my Prozac, thanks. |
I will go by the dramatic effect SSRIs have had in myself and in family members. Just as I would go by real life experiences with a drug like Accutane, which all three of my kids have successfully taken. Are there side effects? Yes, among some people. However, the vast majority of people who take SSRIs (and Accutane) have life-changing results. By dismissing these real success stories, you are doing people a disservice - people who could very well benefit greatly from medication. |
This is wonderful news. Thank you for sharing. |
It is safe to say that OP's DD attempt at suicide was caused by her long history of depression/self-harm, not because of a medication she had safely taken for over a year. OP assumed, incorrectly, that the SSRI was controlling the depression/self-harm. It was not. |
You are wrong on the science of depression. It is not fully understood. Some depressed people actually have an excess of serotonin. SSRIs work barely better than placebos. A sugar pill might have had the same effect that you think Prozac had on you. Personally, I was on an SSRI for 10 years, starting at age 18. I, too, was convinced that it saved my life. Around year 8 or 9, the side effects became unbearable. It was then that I stated to look into SSRIs more deeply. They’re not the miracle drugs many people think. They’re actually a fairly ineffective treatment for depression. |
No, it's not safe to say that at all. Did you miss the part about the huge dosage increase right before this incident? |
Inaccurate on the SSRI claim. |
| In my kids I have an n of 2. SSRIS did not help either one. This is not to detract from those whom SSRIs have helped. |
Citation? |