When were you happier? Married or single?

[Anonymous]

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ZachF wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:I had happy years married and miserable years married. The miserable years were made worse because I could remember when ex was a decent, mostly sane person. Averaging all those years, probably slightly happier married but you have to manufacture your own happiness. I was very lonely and isolated the last 8 years of the marriage.

Now I'm not lonely, and looking forward to a great relationship with a younger, tighter, more successful woman.

You sound like a lovely person.

Because I want what's best for me, for a change?

NP. Because you're an annoying delusional loser

What is so delusional about wanting to choose a better partner next time, after suffering one who wasn't? This option is available to all single people. It's a driving force in the decision to get divorced. The choice between years of worsening misery in a bad relationship, or getting out of the relationship and being free to pursue someone better.

NP here, but I think people are objecting to his goals: "younger, tighter, more successful". It sounds shallow. I think if he'd said "more fun, loving, and generous" no one would have objected.

I believe the statistics are: men after divorce remarry on average 2 years after the divorce to a woman who is on average 8 years younger who weighs on average 11kg less than their ex-wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

ZachF wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had happy years married and miserable years married. The miserable years were made worse because I could remember when ex was a decent, mostly sane person. Averaging all those years, probably slightly happier married but you have to manufacture your own happiness. I was very lonely and isolated the last 8 years of the marriage.

Now I'm not lonely, and looking forward to a great relationship with a younger, tighter, more successful woman.

You sound like a lovely person.

Because I want what's best for me, for a change?

NP. Because you're an annoying delusional loser

What is so delusional about wanting to choose a better partner next time, after suffering one who wasn't? This option is available to all single people. It's a driving force in the decision to get divorced. The choice between years of worsening misery in a bad relationship, or getting out of the relationship and being free to pursue someone better.

NP here, but I think people are objecting to his goals: "younger, tighter, more successful". It sounds shallow. I think if he'd said "more fun, loving, and generous" no one would have objected.

I believe the statistics are: men after divorce remarry on average 2 years after the divorce to a woman who is on average 8 years younger who weighs on average 11kg less than their ex-wife.

Younger and thinner roughly equates to prettier and less bitchy than older and heavier.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

ZachF wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had happy years married and miserable years married. The miserable years were made worse because I could remember when ex was a decent, mostly sane person. Averaging all those years, probably slightly happier married but you have to manufacture your own happiness. I was very lonely and isolated the last 8 years of the marriage.

Now I'm not lonely, and looking forward to a great relationship with a younger, tighter, more successful woman.

You sound like a lovely person.

Because I want what's best for me, for a change?

NP. Because you're an annoying delusional loser

What is so delusional about wanting to choose a better partner next time, after suffering one who wasn't? This option is available to all single people. It's a driving force in the decision to get divorced. The choice between years of worsening misery in a bad relationship, or getting out of the relationship and being free to pursue someone better.

NP here, but I think people are objecting to his goals: "younger, tighter, more successful". It sounds shallow. I think if he'd said "more fun, loving, and generous" no one would have objected.

I believe the statistics are: men after divorce remarry on average 2 years after the divorce to a woman who is on average 8 years younger who weighs on average 11kg less than their ex-wife.

Younger and thinner roughly equates to prettier and less bitchy than older and heavier.

I find the opposite to be true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

ZachF wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had happy years married and miserable years married. The miserable years were made worse because I could remember when ex was a decent, mostly sane person. Averaging all those years, probably slightly happier married but you have to manufacture your own happiness. I was very lonely and isolated the last 8 years of the marriage.

Now I'm not lonely, and looking forward to a great relationship with a younger, tighter, more successful woman.

You sound like a lovely person.

Because I want what's best for me, for a change?

NP. Because you're an annoying delusional loser

What is so delusional about wanting to choose a better partner next time, after suffering one who wasn't? This option is available to all single people. It's a driving force in the decision to get divorced. The choice between years of worsening misery in a bad relationship, or getting out of the relationship and being free to pursue someone better.

NP here, but I think people are objecting to his goals: "younger, tighter, more successful". It sounds shallow. I think if he'd said "more fun, loving, and generous" no one would have objected.

I believe the statistics are: men after divorce remarry on average 2 years after the divorce to a woman who is on average 8 years younger who weighs on average 11kg less than their ex-wife.

Younger and thinner roughly equates to prettier and less bitchy than older and heavier.

I find the opposite to be true.

Older and heavy does equal bitchy and emotionally unstable. 50's == menopause and depression.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

ZachF wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had happy years married and miserable years married. The miserable years were made worse because I could remember when ex was a decent, mostly sane person. Averaging all those years, probably slightly happier married but you have to manufacture your own happiness. I was very lonely and isolated the last 8 years of the marriage.

Now I'm not lonely, and looking forward to a great relationship with a younger, tighter, more successful woman.

You sound like a lovely person.

Because I want what's best for me, for a change?

NP. Because you're an annoying delusional loser

What is so delusional about wanting to choose a better partner next time, after suffering one who wasn't? This option is available to all single people. It's a driving force in the decision to get divorced. The choice between years of worsening misery in a bad relationship, or getting out of the relationship and being free to pursue someone better.

NP here, but I think people are objecting to his goals: "younger, tighter, more successful". It sounds shallow. I think if he'd said "more fun, loving, and generous" no one would have objected.

I believe the statistics are: men after divorce remarry on average 2 years after the divorce to a woman who is on average 8 years younger who weighs on average 11kg less than their ex-wife.

Younger and thinner roughly equates to prettier and less bitchy than older and heavier.

I find the opposite to be true.

Older and heavy does equal bitchy and emotionally unstable. 50's == menopause and depression.

I find you skinny chicks to be Type A and intense.

My older friends that are not skinny... cook, drink and are fun loving.

[Anonymous]

When I had boyfriends not a husband!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

ZachF wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had happy years married and miserable years married. The miserable years were made worse because I could remember when ex was a decent, mostly sane person. Averaging all those years, probably slightly happier married but you have to manufacture your own happiness. I was very lonely and isolated the last 8 years of the marriage.

Now I'm not lonely, and looking forward to a great relationship with a younger, tighter, more successful woman.

You sound like a lovely person.

Because I want what's best for me, for a change?

NP. Because you're an annoying delusional loser

What is so delusional about wanting to choose a better partner next time, after suffering one who wasn't? This option is available to all single people. It's a driving force in the decision to get divorced. The choice between years of worsening misery in a bad relationship, or getting out of the relationship and being free to pursue someone better.

NP here, but I think people are objecting to his goals: "younger, tighter, more successful". It sounds shallow. I think if he'd said "more fun, loving, and generous" no one would have objected.

I believe the statistics are: men after divorce remarry on average 2 years after the divorce to a woman who is on average 8 years younger who weighs on average 11kg less than their ex-wife.

Younger and thinner roughly equates to prettier and less bitchy than older and heavier.

I find the opposite to be true.

Older and heavy does equal bitchy and emotionally unstable. 50's == menopause and depression.

I find you skinny chicks to be Type A and intense.

My older friends that are not skinny... cook, drink and are fun loving.

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