Would you get sad or angry if you saw pictures of your ex on Facebook with women 20+ years younger?

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. I didn't want him. Who cares.

The only right answer so far.

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I've endured this. It stings.

What's even more irritating than seeing him with 20-something trollops is knowing he's doing way better with his business now than when we were married. Back then was going nowhere, just sort of getting by, but nothing great. And then three years after we split, things just took off for him. He finally landed one huge account, then led to like 5 more the next year based on that. He's probably doing well over a million a year now, for the last 5 or 6 years. It's unfair, because his income now is easily ten-fold what it was during our marriage, and I'm missing out on all that. I'll give him credit for doing both kids tuition all on his own, but even that wasn't an inconvenience, since he still had plenty of money left over for his stupid midlife crisis car.

Seeing him with different women in their 20's and him now at 51 makes me crazy sometimes. But then I remember no matter how much money he has, he's still got a small dick and probably still has PE, especially with younger women.

Then I laugh at him.

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He has the good taste to date women 10 years younger, not 20 or 30 years younger.

When I see the pics, I feel sorry for the women. The relationships often don't last more than 3-6 months. But I hope he will find someone soon because he makes really bad decisions (ADHD) in personal and financial matters, and I don't want my kids to have to carry this burden. There must be someone out there who can love him and deal, and he needs that, so they'd both be happy.

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Anonymous wrote:Sad for my kids.

My friend is dating a 25 yo and she walk around in just a tshirt and underwear around his 23 yo son.

If none of the parties care, why do you?

His son did care, he said my house my rules. Bragged to my H. It's off, that isn't normal.

She cheated on him and left him after stealing money... a lot of money.

I told him all the signs were there you just ignored them. He said, signs, what signs? I said the 1st sign was that you though a 25 yo was actually interested in you.

It's pathetic.

you think hannah davis is going to leave Jeter?

Get real a normal guy who's 40 that is making under $200k a year isn't going to be attracting many of the under 25 set unless she outweighs him or is looking for a sugar daddy/meal ticket. Derek Jeter's experience with attracting swimsuit models isn't transferable to a 45 y/o divorced PowerPoint jockey making $200k a year of which $60k goes towards child support. (On the female side, Sophia Loren or whatever Hollywood actress still looks good at 40, 50, 60, isn't transferable to a 38 y/o woman of no great beauty or talent but many cats that's still hoping to land a BigLaw (tm) partner w/o kids.

One possible exception might be if there is a shared niche interest or something like that but those things are hit or miss.

Like for example a guy meeting a woman at the Kennedy Center or at a SCA/LARP event (although my exception regarding outweighing the guy may apply here.) Plus that's the sort of relationship where a girl cuts it off after 1-2 years once she realizes that while there is attraction there is nothing possible for the long term.

Sophia Loren? Didn't even know she was still alive but she is and over 80. She also married a man 22 years her senior and the stayed married until his death in his 90's.

[Anonymous]

He's your ex so why do you care or even follow him on Facebook?

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If there are kids involved, and he's partying it up with a 25 year old, I just feel sorry for the kids.

[Anonymous]

OP, are you fat? Why are you so jealous?

Most guys outside of US date significantly younger women. Hopefully she is hot!

Good for him!

[Anonymous]

Women are like sour milk. Be greatfull someone twice your age takes you in

[Anonymous]

Your divorced, move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's your ex so why do you care or even follow him on Facebook?

+1

[Anonymous]

I love all the sad women disguising jealousy and hurt by name-calling. We can all see right through you and no one is fooled.

[Anonymous]

I saw an ex with a very pretty girl online. She was probably 12 years younger, but I knew it wouldn't last. He's a narcissist which is why I dumped him after 6 mo. When I looked her up I found pictures of her drinking in bars with revealing clothes. He never liked easy women. He's a pilot and she was a flight attendant, LOL. Sure enough their marriage lasted 2 years because she cheated on him. Then they went to court and fought over their cat.

I know some younger older marriages go the distance, but most don't. Usually ends badly fighting over assets. There's only one thing younger women want $$.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women are like sour milk. Be greatfull someone twice your age takes you in

lol You've been done wrong by a lot of women I can see.

Go to the animal shelter. Surely one will go home with you, and love you unconditionally.