In your opinion, is porn a form of infidelity?

[Anonymous]

No - but the homemade movies with my AP were

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No, but it's vulgar and disgusting, so it would be a deal-breaker.

There is some absolutely stunningly beautiful porn. Branch out from some of the run of the mill hardcore stuff.

Link?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No - but the homemade movies with my AP were

Link?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is equivalent to fantasizing sexually, but it involves the eyes and not just imagination. So if one thinks sexual fantasies is infidelity, then so is porn. In my uninformed amateur opinion, majority of couples would not think these two acts are acts of infidelity.

I don't find either to be infidelity, but it is not equivalent to fantasizing sexually- for reasons 22:14 pointed out, among others. Difference in dopamine reward seeking, actual people/exploitation involved, etc. Not a moral judgement of it. Just being realistic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Watching porn occasionally? No.

A porn compulsion or addiction or something they need regularly? I don't know about infidelity, but it's definitely a problem.

+1 and at some level it has to affect how they look at women.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, but it's vulgar and disgusting, so it would be a deal-breaker.

If you are married or dating a heterosexual male, he's watching porn from time to time. Period. The end.

Hmm, actually...no.

Actually, yes.

[Anonymous]

No. I don't care if my DH uses it to masturbate. Truly, deep down, it doesn't bother me at all.

[Anonymous]

No. my DH and I watch it infrequently because we like the real thing and the men and women in porn have fake bodies and over act. We have real bodies and never act.....well I have faked it a few times!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. my DH and I watch it infrequently because we like the real thing and the men and women in porn have fake bodies and over act. We have real bodies and never act.....well I have faked it a few times!

Just a few?

[Anonymous]

Not in moderation but if it is something that ends up on your radar as a wife, it is too much.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, but it's vulgar and disgusting, so it would be a deal-breaker.

If you are married or dating a heterosexual male, he's watching porn from time to time. Period. The end.

Hmm, actually...no.

Actually, yes.

Yes. You may not want to believe it and he probably denies it but yes. Yes, porn can hurt a relationship, as can football, if it becomes preferable to one's partner. But in moderation, it can help a relationship. I learned about one technique I didn't even know about until I saw it on porn and now it's one of our favorite activities.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, but it's vulgar and disgusting, so it would be a deal-breaker.

If you are married or dating a heterosexual male, he's watching porn from time to time. Period. The end.

Hmm, actually...no.

Actually, yes.

Yes. You may not want to believe it and he probably denies it but yes. Yes, porn can hurt a relationship, as can football, if it becomes preferable to one's partner. But in moderation, it can help a relationship. I learned about one technique I didn't even know about until I saw it on porn and now it's one of our favorite activities.

Anal?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. my DH and I watch it infrequently because we like the real thing and the men and women in porn have fake bodies and over act. We have real bodies and never act.....well I have faked it a few times!

That's why you gotta watch the amateur stuff!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, but it's vulgar and disgusting, so it would be a deal-breaker.

If you are married or dating a heterosexual male, he's watching porn from time to time. Period. The end.

Hmm, actually...no.

Actually, yes.

Yes. You may not want to believe it and he probably denies it but yes. Yes, porn can hurt a relationship, as can football, if it becomes preferable to one's partner. But in moderation, it can help a relationship. I learned about one technique I didn't even know about until I saw it on porn and now it's one of our favorite activities.

Or DW's shopping and compulsive housecleaning.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, but it's vulgar and disgusting, so it would be a deal-breaker.

If you are married or dating a heterosexual male, he's watching porn from time to time. Period. The end.

Hmm, actually...no.

Actually, yes.

Yes. You may not want to believe it and he probably denies it but yes. Yes, porn can hurt a relationship, as can football, if it becomes preferable to one's partner. But in moderation, it can help a relationship. I learned about one technique I didn't even know about until I saw it on porn and now it's one of our favorite activities.

Anal?

No. That one I already knew about.