In your opinion, is porn a form of infidelity?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, but it's vulgar and disgusting, so it would be a deal-breaker.

If you are married or dating a heterosexual male, he's watching porn from time to time. Period. The end.

Hmm, actually...no.

So you're a lesbian?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, but it's vulgar and disgusting, so it would be a deal-breaker.

If you are married or dating a heterosexual male, he's watching porn from time to time. Period. The end.

Nope, this isn't true. Check relevant reddit threads if you want perspective on from men. Maybe most, yes. Not all. Mine doesn't. Could he be lying? Yeah, but without giving out every relevant detail of my life, it'd be like a man falsely claiming to be a vegetarian to his omnivorous wife who owns a butcher shop.

Also, gay guys watch porn, too.

[Anonymous]

This is the dumbest question that I have ever seen on DCUM.

And that, speaks volumes.

To answer the question - no.

[Anonymous]

Watching porn occasionally? No.

A porn compulsion or addiction or something they need regularly? I don't know about infidelity, but it's definitely a problem.

[Anonymous]

No.

[Anonymous]

No.

All men watch porn. I don't hound my DH, he is available to me when I need him.

[Anonymous]

Mike Pence won't watch porn unless someone else is in the room. Billy Graham Rule.

[Anonymous]

Well, I get laid rarely so it's that or I have sex with someone for real. Neither are ideal, I'd rather be with my wife but everything takes precedence over me so there you have it. Personally it's gotten to the point porn isn't even great as Id rather have the real thing. Chances are I'll hook up with someone soon and it won't be the wife. Porn was merely a holdover until that time.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely, not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, but it's vulgar and disgusting, so it would be a deal-breaker.

If you are married or dating a heterosexual male, he's watching porn from time to time. Period. The end.

Hmm, actually...no.

So you're a lesbian?

No, it's just untrue and annoying when ignorant people insist on posting gender generalizations like this. Have you gone around and asked ALL the men in the world? Do all women gossip? Do all men sit around and watch the game? For goodness sake.
I'm sure a lot of men watch porn. But not all. And their sexual orientation has nothing to do with it.

[Anonymous]

No. It's a fantasy. Psychologists find that fantasies are fine as long as we don't act on them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, I get laid rarely so it's that or I have sex with someone for real. Neither are ideal, I'd rather be with my wife but everything takes precedence over me so there you have it. Personally it's gotten to the point porn isn't even great as Id rather have the real thing. Chances are I'll hook up with someone soon and it won't be the wife. Porn was merely a holdover until that time.

So you saying porn is like a gateway drug to infidelity?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, but it's vulgar and disgusting, so it would be a deal-breaker.

If you are married or dating a heterosexual male, he's watching porn from time to time. Period. The end.

Hmm, actually...no.

So you're a lesbian?

No, it's just untrue and annoying when ignorant people insist on posting gender generalizations like this. Have you gone around and asked ALL the men in the world? Do all women gossip? Do all men sit around and watch the game? For goodness sake.
I'm sure a lot of men watch porn. But not all. And their sexual orientation has nothing to do with it.

You sound like someone who is frequently wrong but rarely in doubt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mike Pence won't watch porn unless someone else is in the room. Billy Graham Rule.

Ha!

[Anonymous]

No, unless either my DW or I am in it. Then it would be an issue.