The other woman or other man

[Anonymous]

ZachF wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In honor of this thread, I plan on decorating my titties with cupcake icing for tomorrow's departmental meeting.

Best comment in this whole thread.

Thank you, ZachF

[Anonymous]

I don't know why I come here. My wife had an emotional affair that almost got physical. I always was skeptical about the "want to work on my relationship" reasoning. And that she still wanted to be with me as much as him. It always sounds like if the person is just trying to force themselves to like you again. Like it's just about guilt.

I was told in therapy I wasn't even allowed to talk about the other guy because it affected her self image. He was trailer trash insulted the other guy because I was humiliated and needed individual therapy. That caused a lot of issues that I still feel now.

I guess that I take it as if she did love him more. If that wasn't the case then she wouldn't have lied so often about talking to him. She just liked him better.

Man this is depressing.

[Anonymous]

Most of you if you can afford it should move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most of you if you can afford it should move on.

I have a better life now. A beautiful house and daughter. I am 100% certain that everything is in the past for my wife and it was brought on because of disagreement about having a baby. At least that was what was told to me. As I stated, I don't know why I come to this forum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most of you if you can afford it should move on.

I have a better life now. A beautiful house and daughter. I am 100% certain that everything is in the past for my wife and it was brought on because of disagreement about having a baby. At least that was what was told to me. As I stated, I don't know why I come to this forum.

Please tell me you visit chumplady.com
It is a lifesaver.

[Anonymous]

Chumplady is relentlessly one dimensional.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Chumplady is relentlessly one dimensional.

+1

[ZachF]

Anonymous wrote:In general, men affair down, women affair up. It's not that hard for an average looking woman to get an attractive married man to sleep with them. It's very hard for an average looking man to get an hot married woman to sleep with them.

You don't speak for all men. Where did you get this crazy idea?

[Anonymous]

My DW had an affair with a guy while I was, in just a few years time, building a very successful technology business. There is no doubt that my single minded pursuit left her feeling emotionally and physically abandoned. I was at fault for that but it turns out the guy was pursuing my money more than he was pursuing my wife. My DW and I are still working our way through this but it has been challenging but I am hopeful. I was able to wreak some major financial pain on the guy which hopefully taught the SOB a lesson.