I think you are harsh. By definition, students are learners and sometimes need help making choices and understanding options. I don't agree that the word is "unambitious" -- it might be, but you are forgetting these are kids. Some see everything as an assault of their fragile sense of self, and don't even know where to begin. |
Overly sensitive? Not a go-getter? He may also be "shy and reserved", but that's not why he needs the help. |
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Actually, the most ambitious people often need the MOST hand holding. They know their direction, sure, but they often do not respect the effort that others put in to get to similar goals. The most ambitious also often try to skip steps making things harder for themselves.
"If you are "shy and reserved" you don't necessarily need hand holding to figure out your direction. I think the word you're looking for is "unambitious". Plenty of shy kids can figure it out and get things done." |
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Just encourage him to go to a smaller school with a more nurturing atmosphere and classes taught by real profs, not graduate students from Asia. He'll do fine.
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Not in my experience AT ALL and I know plenty of ambitious folks (from my top 10 engineering program, grad programs, research labs, etc.). You are describing people who are perhaps are overconfident and/or inattentive. You can certainly be very ambitious and still understand what is required to succeed and meet your goals without any handholding. |
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I think my definition of handholding is broader than yours. For example, I think Donald Trump needs lots of handholding despite being the most ambitious person AND having a better idea of what it took to succeed than anyone else in the election. He certainly doesn't respect the efforts of others and he certainly skips steps.
You are probably more right than I am in the relative numbers BUT there is a solid minority of ambitious/talented people who fall into the category I am pointing out. They don't all look like Trump, many are introverts and many more of this minority come from families who don't have lots of experience with "the big city". The numbers in this less experienced group are dropping, with the internet but it still solidly exists. "You can certainly be very ambitious and still understand what is required to succeed and meet your goals without any handholding." |
Civil and mechanical are very physics heavy. Depending on what you specialize in, it can be very math and calculus heavy. I did my civil engineer and specialized in structural engg with a focus on aerospace. It was intense calculus |
| Which science is more important/useful for engineers? Chemistry or Physics? After having taken Chem, Bio & Physics, just trying to see which one of these dc should take as an AP next year if he wants engineering in college. He doesn't seem particulary more into any one of these over others. |
Chemistry for chemical engineering. Maybe some parts of biomedical or materials. Physics for civil, mechanical, engineering physics, materials, biomechanical, maybe more. Have him do some sort of intro to engineering program over the summer to get a better feel for the different types of engineering. |
phys or chem, and take the one where the teacher has the better reputation. |
This. You don't need to be very smart or talented to be an engineer. You just neef to be persistent and willing to work hard. I struggled through engineering school but am now a very successful engineer. It turns out that being an engineer is actually a lot easier than studying it.. |
Your thinking about that question. Ackwards. Which AP does he want to take? That's the one he should take and it will give him an idea of the type of engineering he might like. |
+1 I love Physics, am kind of OK with Chemistry, and strongly dislike Biology. Let your kid figure out what he/she is good at / enjoys. |
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I disagree with the idea of taking whichever science AP he likes more. AP Biology or AP Environmental Science just aren't going to give you a good preview of an Engineering major.
Next, does your school offer, AP Phyics 1 or AP Physics 1 and 2 together OR are we talking AP Physics C, which a B student should certainly put off until he gets to college? While HS chemistry has something to do with ChemE, given the cursory nature of honors physics these days, the sustained nature of math in an AP Physics 1 and 2 together course would give him a window on what engineering will be like. If your school spreads out AP Physics 1 over the entire year, I suggest taking that AND AP Chem. |
Look at Clarkson University in Potsdam, NY. It's an awesome place to learn to be an engineer and it has a great reputation I'm the engineering world. Grads get fantastic jobs with big companies. Lots of B+ high school students who find their motivation in enginerring. |