Dad buying DD bras and underwear question

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's almost comical you think you know how a bra is supposed to fit.

Go to Nordstrom or victoria's secret and let the professionals deal with it.

I'm a straight guy. I've taken off many bras, and gone shopping with women for bras. I know what looks right or wrong.

great, you have had sex with a woman, now you are qualified to give your daughter her first pelvic exam.

Why is her mother not dealing with this?

He could probably try to locate the stick in your other hole.

[Anonymous]

My DH has handled ALL clothes shopping for our daughters who are now young adults. All of it. Baby pajamas through prom dresses.

When they shop for bras or underwear or swimsuits, he just sits somewhere in the store and then shows up when they need to pay for it and they go find him. A sales lady handles the fit of the items with the girls.

If it is something other than bras and underwear, he sits nearer to the fitting room and they come out and show him what they are trying on. They chat about the size, color, fashion. He will go find a different size for them, etc. They shop just like a mother/daughter. Only it is father/daughter(s).

He doesn't blink an eye and neither do they.

I cannot stand shopping for clothes. I have always really hated it. He enjoys the shopping with the girls, going out to lunch, etc. I connect with my daughters in other ways.

They have flown the nest, but they still text him photos of things they are trying on when they are shopping and he chats and texts back and forth about it.

Next up: wedding dresses.

[Anonymous]

For us dad's a teen girl and all the things female are truly mysterious. Im not joking. We know nothing of bras periods or hormones. Sorry ladies we are clueless.

DD is 13 and the whole period thing is far more complicated than I ever imagined. By the time most men meet girlfriends/wifes all this has be practiced and figured out. We have no clue.

To the OP take the good advise and forget the rest of the haters. How the h3ll would you know bra fitting?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For us dad's a teen girl and all the things female are truly mysterious. Im not joking. We know nothing of bras periods or hormones. Sorry ladies we are clueless.

DD is 13 and the whole period thing is far more complicated than I ever imagined. By the time most men meet girlfriends/wifes all this has be practiced and figured out. We have no clue.

To the OP take the good advise and forget the rest of the haters. How the h3ll would you know bra fitting?

That's a pathetic cop-out. Not every man is as clueless as you are.

[Anonymous]

I think for the timid bra shopping could be a trial and error type thing. Let her pick and bunch and try them on at home and return the ones that don't fit later. Really aren't most of us wearing the wrong bra size anyway? Is it necessary for a teen's first bra to be a perfect fit! No. Once she gets over the first bra shopping trip she'll get more confident. Just let go of the reins a little. Jeeze.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For us dad's a teen girl and all the things female are truly mysterious. Im not joking. We know nothing of bras periods or hormones. Sorry ladies we are clueless.

DD is 13 and the whole period thing is far more complicated than I ever imagined. By the time most men meet girlfriends/wifes all this has be practiced and figured out. We have no clue.

To the OP take the good advise and forget the rest of the haters. How the h3ll would you know bra fitting?

That's a pathetic cop-out. Not every man is as clueless as you are.

Its not a cop out its a fact. How would we know? A class? We dont know that using a tampon for the first time is tricky and feels really weird - how would we? We dont know that sometimes when you are out a pad slips or flow simply overwhelms a product so there is a mess. We dont know what it feels like to be embarrassed about any of this - its never happened to us. Fact is men dont have issues that even closely resemble a period.

It sounds like you are the one that is clueless and I might add a real jerk.