Sister's comment on facebook - curt/jealous?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nobody gives a shit about your wedding photos besides you.

Yep in 1 year no one will remember anything about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No one will ever care about your wedding pictures even half as much as you do. She was nice for even commenting on them at all. You had your princess for a day moment, it's over, let it go.

I know it's like the slide show of someone's vacation. Who cares?

[Anonymous]

My sister is like this. She sent me the link to the new house she and her Dh are buying. I wrote back "Nice!" Or something similar and she complained to my mom (who told me) that I wasn't enthusiastic enough. True story.

[Anonymous]

She's tired of the whole production, which is understandable - she has her own life to lead, you know.

It doesn't mean she doesn't LOVE you, silly!

[Anonymous]

How long have you been dominating the family with preparations for your wedding? How much have the family and your sister had to do over the last few months to prepare. Did you make her host any events like engagement party, bridal party, bachelorette party or anything else? If your family had to deal with CNN-style all news all the time talk about your wedding for more than about 4-6 weeks, then they are so completely over your wedding. Also, how many photos are we talking about? It's fine to post 5-6, maybe as many as 8 photos of your wedding. Anything more than that (unless you are doing so to tag family and bridal party friends) is just much too conceited. Some of you who post like 20-25 photos of the wedding just have no idea how much people are going this about you:



Grow up and respond to her comment with a heartfelt (which is probably hard for you) and gratious thanks for being your MOH for your wedding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nobody gives a shit about your wedding photos besides you.

+1 sorry

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she isn't on facebook every day? Maybe she doesn't have time to scroll thru your 100 pictures?

This. My sister could have written this post. I loved her wedding and thought it was beautiful, but I don't really get along with her sorority girl friends that well...they kind of annoy me, and I don't go on Facebook that much. I didn't know until reading this post that if you leave a comment, you are still supposed to "like" the picture.

[Anonymous]

If she were a brother she wouldn't have posted and certainly wouldn't be giving comments.

Public emotions/sharing vary greatly. Makes me think you don't know or accept your sister for who she really is (and not who you think she should be)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How long have you been dominating the family with preparations for your wedding? How much have the family and your sister had to do over the last few months to prepare. Did you make her host any events like engagement party, bridal party, bachelorette party or anything else? If your family had to deal with CNN-style all news all the time talk about your wedding for more than about 4-6 weeks, then they are so completely over your wedding. Also, how many photos are we talking about? It's fine to post 5-6, maybe as many as 8 photos of your wedding. Anything more than that (unless you are doing so to tag family and bridal party friends) is just much too conceited. Some of you who post like 20-25 photos of the wedding just have no idea how much people are going this about you:



Grow up and respond to her comment with a heartfelt (which is probably hard for you) and gratious thanks for being your MOH for your wedding.

Oh god, shut up. It is not uncommon to post an album of your wedding photos to Facebook, and it's certainly not conceited. Most people don't do it expecting an onslaught of comments and praises (I didn't at least), I posted mine (months after the wedding) because I had people asking to see the photos of themselves and the pictures that they weren't a part of. I don't disagree that OP is getting way over-emotional about this, but for you to say that anyone who posts more than your "acceptable" 8 photos of their wedding is some selfish bridezilla, says a lot more about you than it does about the person.