Sister's comment on facebook - curt/jealous?

[Anonymous]

You're selfish, entitled, and bratty. Be glad she was kind enough to give you the comment she did. Shows a lot of class on her part. And your post shows zero class on your part, OP. Get over yourself. The world doesn't revolve around you or your wedding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't believe you are real.

I don't believe this is real either. It sounds like something that would happen in a terrible rom-com.

[Anonymous]

tough crowd. I do think it's weird that she did not like any of your posts. the comment is a little randomly detached

[Anonymous]

Maybe she was there? She was the maid of honor? She saw the whole thing, fawned the whole time, did her duty as a sister. Maybe she is in a hospital dead sick having the life sucked out of her by her sister during the wedding and before?

[Anonymous]

Oh man OP. Just...wow.

[Anonymous]

Wow. You are a piece of work.

[Anonymous]

She did not like or love any of the photos...or the album?

How many freaking photos of YOU did you post on Facebook and expect people to actually look at?

[Anonymous]

Me, me, me, me, millennial.

[Anonymous]

It is clear that your photos must be hideous. Why else would she be so rude?

[Anonymous]

Chill, bridezilla.

[Anonymous]

I hope she sees this and deletes her comment

[Anonymous]

Out of curiosity, what would have been an appropriate comment?

Does her lack of commenting take away from your wedding day or your photos?

Why do you need her affirmations?

[Anonymous]

How sad for your husband that, so shortly after your wedding, this is what you focus your time and energy on.

[Anonymous]

I have concluded, after dealing with my mom who sometimes thinks others are jealous of her, that it is best just not to go there - don't assume people are jealous of you - it just doesn't lead to anything constructive. There are various explanations - focusing on possible jealousy does not help. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Pro tip -- if you're ever tempted to blame an interpersonal issue (or a disagreement here) on jealousy, take a step back and and don't type or talk. Where you see jealousy, there's a strong chance you're actually seeing a reaction to your attitude.

Maybe your sister is just over the big wedding sucking all of the air out of a room. Maybe she wishes you weren't hell-bent on making yourself the center of attention even after the wedding. Maybe she thinks, as many do, that this is immature.

Same goes for posters who immediately go to "jealous" or "bitter" working mothers or "jealous" friends who don't have their HHI. Most likely those people don't get along with you because you behave in a manner that's hard for them to deal with.

Labeling people as jealous says more about you than about them. It shows you assume there's nothing wrong with you and people who disagree would rather be you. It's vain.