Approaches to disruptive student behavior

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:At my kids' private, disruptive kids are removed from the classroom and sent to be dealt with by the administration so the good kids can continue to learn and be in the classroom with the teacher(s). And yes, my use of "good kids" there was on purpose. The disruptive kid's parents are made to come into the school weekly to meet with administrators and teachers and called daily with reports on their kid. I know of cases where parents of disruptive kids were required to take parenting skills classes at the school and the kid was required to see the school counselor and/or a psychiatrist weekly. IMO this is exactly the correct response. A badly behaved kid usually has parents who don't know how to parent correctly, or perhaps are too lazy and entitled to do so. Dealing with the "whole picture" of both the behavior of the kikd and the parenting skills is exactly right.

Wow. Now THAT is a fantastic response. Would you mind naming the school. My esteem for that anonymous school just went up a notch.

[Anonymous]

Certainly better then our school where parents of disruptive and violent kids buy their way onto the board.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:NPS only goes to 6th. And it doesn't handle things that way. They certainly imply that its the parents fault, as does the poster above, but aren't so paternalistic as to follow through with parenting classes. Hysterical.

Forced parenting classes .. and you get to pay for the privilege. And your kid is called the Bad Kid who is separated from the Good Kids. Sounds like a really bad dystopian YA book.

Sounds to me like responding PP has a disruptive kid and has weak parenting skills. Seriously, this would only bother you IF you know your kid and your parenting skills aren't good.

[Anonymous]

I agree that badly behaved children need to be dealt with decisively by the school, but it certainly isn't always because of poor parenting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:NPS only goes to 6th. And it doesn't handle things that way. They certainly imply that its the parents fault, as does the poster above, but aren't so paternalistic as to follow through with parenting classes. Hysterical.

Forced parenting classes .. and you get to pay for the privilege. And your kid is called the Bad Kid who is separated from the Good Kids. Sounds like a really bad dystopian YA book.

Sounds to me like responding PP has a disruptive kid and has weak parenting skills. Seriously, this would only bother you IF you know your kid and your parenting skills aren't good.

Very much the opposite. But I understand other people's kids too. It should bother everyone to have a young children labeled Good Kids and Bad Kids.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes the disruptive student stays and your child leaves because the school administration does not really do enough to change the situation. The disruptive child has parents who donate a generous dirty amount of money to school. Disruptive children from disruptive parents attend a school with disruptive administration. We did not want to live in a disruptive environment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Certainly better then our school where parents of disruptive and violent kids buy their way onto the board.

Please tell me if tha's Arlington, FFX, LCPS, MoCo

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes the disruptive student stays and your child leaves because the school administration does not really do enough to change the situation. The disruptive child has parents who donate a generous dirty amount of money to school. Disruptive children from disruptive parents attend a school with disruptive administration. We did not want to live in a disruptive environment.

I bet the Board is disruptive too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree that badly behaved children need to be dealt with decisively by the school, but it certainly isn't always because of poor parenting.

Of course not. However the schools someone's don't take enough action and should have the parents come in and meet with them. The social bullying is the worst behavior that gets overlooked I think. I would think parents would want to know if their child was trying to social bully other kids. I would want to know if my child was doing this because I would put an end to it.