Ladies: Would you have sex more often

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got in better shape. We didn't have more sex.

THIS is what I think would happen for 99% of the women who have said yes.

If he looked like and had the body of Henry Cavil, then 99% of hotblooded women would jump his bones a few times a week, no doubt, or at least I know I would. If he is hot but a jerk, then no.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am absolutely not attracted to him as he is now. But I doubt he could change that. What made me interested in sex again was a new man.

It is biology, people. Women get bored after about 2-5 years and then we have 45 years of hell with the same man and we blame it on chores, tired, out of shape husbands when in fact, it is just simple biology.

Women are NOT MEANT TO BE WITH ONE MAN their whole lives.

The problem is that men make fine fathers. And we care about our kids. And also that we become old hags who can't have more kids so if we swapped every 5 years ... we'd be single by the time we were 50, tops. For the rest of our lives.

Which sucks.

So. Men. You can't do anything about it except be the other man. Because as the other man you are fucking HOT. So very attractive.

Truer words have never been spoken.

[Anonymous]

Nah, I wouldn't want to have sex more often if he were in better shape. He's naturally thin, and I'm not with him for his looks. It wouldn't hurt if he had more stamina.

I would want to have sex way more often if I were the one who got in better shape, though. I'm not so happy with my body these days, and am in poor health.

[Anonymous]

Then what is preventing you from getting in better shape?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:with your spouse if he were really fit and in good shape?

He is and I do. I've never known anything different!

[Anonymous]

No. DH is about 35 pounds overweight. Was about 15 pounds overweight when we met. Still crazy attracted to him. Still have sex 3-4 times a week. Now if he lost the 35 pounds he would want sex more because he'd have more energy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:with your spouse if he were really fit and in good shape?

He is and I do. I've never known anything different!

Braggy braggy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:with your spouse if he were really fit and in good shape?

He is and I do. I've never known anything different!

Braggy braggy

Well, you asked. And it's not like anyone knows me...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:with your spouse if he were really fit and in good shape?

He is and I do. I've never known anything different!

Braggy braggy

Hater hater!

[Anonymous]

He is fit and in good shape. So am I.

No.

[Anonymous]

No, because it doesn't lessen my tiredness. It will help a lot if he helps around the house especially at night time.

[Anonymous]

Mine is in great shape already, so no. But from past experience with my ex, I'd probably want it LESS if he was in bad shape. As it is, looking at him turns me on. I was ready to jump him this morning as he was leaving for work but with a 3 yr old and an 8 week old it wasn't happening.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I got in better shape. We didn't have more sex.

THIS is what I think would happen for 99% of the women who have said yes.

To quote another poster on this thread, "truer words have never been spoken."

[Anonymous]

DH here, I have always been in good shape. Lucky that I enjoy exercise and have good genes. I have the 6 pack, broad shoulders over 6 foot. My wife says woman aren't turned on visually and it doesn't mean much to her.
I believe that over the years she's just used to me and forgets most guys my age have dad bods

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No.

He'd be at the gym in the am when I want some.

Who would I drink with?

Definitly not, sounds really boring and boring does not turn me on.

+1 can't stand frat boy gym rats and never have

my DH is in Ok shape, same as he ever was, but it is his mind and eyes that keep me on him