Yup. It sounds gentler and milder. Accidents happen! What can you do? It was an accident! Which is exactly why we should not use that word. Also, all you have to do is replace "car accident" with "collision" or "car crash". That's it. Very simple. And the appropriate analogy to "drunk-driving-car-collision-with-two-fatalities", is not "car accident" -- it's "drunk-driving-car-accident-with-two-fatalities". |
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He knowingly allowed underage people (both minors and adults) to drink in his home. He told his daughter to make them leave. The presumption is that they had to leave some way, and the presumption is that they would collect their vehicles. Definitely negligence if not more. |
If the driver didn't drive himself away then how would he know that he might eventually get into a car and drive? |
PP, you are trying to have a fact-based argument with people who are not interested in the facts. |
He did drive himself and others away, though. Why are you exploring these hypotheticals when we have facts we can discuss? |
Ha, you are correct. Many people on this thread seem to be wildly disinterested in facts. |
What if he didn't DRIVE HIMSELF AWAY when he left, but got in the driver's seat at a later point? Would you still think the party hosts should be responsible for anything more than hosting a party? This isn't hypothetical. I'm truly curious about whether people think the party dad is responsible. |
| I know who's always trying to divert our attention away from the irresponsible parent. No mystery there. |
Of course the lawyer is ethically responsible. |
I'm a parent in the community and I have kids. I am 100% unrelated to the "irresponsible parent". In fact, I think he's a jerk. I'm just trying to understand the thinking of people on here. |
Did you see the other thread that someone managed to get locked? |
Sorry. I just bumped it up for you. It's not locked. |
If you give underage people alcohol you should assume they are going to do something stupid that night, so you don't serve children alcohol Even though some kids left the party shit faced with a designated driver, the adult that knew ey were dripunl should have let some parent know their kid was shit faced so they could make sure he did not make a drunk decision like take a car from his house. Also, the Holton parent should joy kick drunks out of his house to go drive home. They should have gotten their names and called their parents. I was at a NYE party and teens stole alcohol. The parents were called and a clean hand off was done, adult to adult. |
Ok, THIS (the parts that didn't get autocorrected into oblivion) is reasonable and responsible. |