Sexless marriage veteran thread got me thinking...

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:New question --for women 50 and over, what is your need? Well, really a different question -- how hard is it to find a woman in her 50s who still wants frequent sex, who wants to have orgasms, who sees sex as part of passion and intimacy? Obviously, this is not my DW or I wouldn't be posting on DCUM. Thanks. Genuinely curious.

I've always had a greater sex drive than DH and we've been together nearly 30 years. He was never that good at it and is pretty clueless (like most guys) as to how female anatomy works. Self service has been the answer in the last several years of a sexless marriage.

Well women are pretty clueless at sex also.

+1, and +1 for the guys too.... there is NO reason to not ask for what you want/need, or educate your parntner.

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I would like sex 4-5 times a week, my husband seems to be happy with 1 or 2 times a week. *sigh*