DH wants me to "make nice"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You might have better results if you can talk your husband into getting counseling. Until he comes to terms with his childhood and his mom, accepting how things were and how things are now, he'll stay stuck where he is: longing for things to be magically "okay" with his mom, and depending on you to make it so. He probably likes that you're a fighter, but you can't fight his battles for him, and you shouldn't be cannon fodder either, taking the hits for him.

+1000

Which they expect. They love to put someone in their line of vision as target. Little do they know, it won't be me. Which iix what bothers them most, I believe.