Fun question: if you had not married your spouse

[Anonymous]

Probably still married to his ex, with a kid now, living where he was living and doing what he was doing.

I'd probably be broke, bartending, drinking too much and sleeping around. So, thanks honey!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Probably still married to his ex, with a kid now, living where he was living and doing what he was doing.

I'd probably be broke, bartending, drinking too much and sleeping around. So, thanks honey!

So you broke up his first marriage with your sleeping around. You must be so proud.

[Anonymous]

He'd be living in a different country and, regardless of relationship status (for both of us), probably still hooking up with me whenever he's back home. Somehow we always make our way back to each other (and have been together for good for 10 years).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He'd be living in a different country and, regardless of relationship status (for both of us), probably still hooking up with me whenever he's back home. Somehow we always make our way back to each other (and have been together for good for 10 years).

And just to be clear based on the PP, we were never previously married and neither of us are home wreckers. Just destined to be together!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:how would that person be doing today?

Stagnant in his career, much more of a mama's boy (beating her back has been tough), and probably with narrower horizons from never leaving his home city. I think both of us would agree that he got the better end of our marriage. I, on the other hand, should have ran.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He'd be living in a different country and, regardless of relationship status (for both of us), probably still hooking up with me whenever he's back home. Somehow we always make our way back to each other (and have been together for good for 10 years).

And just to be clear based on the PP, we were never previously married and neither of us are home wreckers. Just destined to be together!

I am assuming that you two are married now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He'd be living in a different country and, regardless of relationship status (for both of us), probably still hooking up with me whenever he's back home. Somehow we always make our way back to each other (and have been together for good for 10 years).

And just to be clear based on the PP, we were never previously married and neither of us are home wreckers. Just destined to be together!

I am assuming that you two are married now?

Yes! 10 years

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The same as he is now, but with someone else.

This, but maybe living in Boston.

[Anonymous]

He would have been definitely richer.

He would not have had a better sex-life and better marital life. He also would not have the wonderful kids that he has now.