+1. Utter rubbish. My sister and I have possibly the most stressed mom in the world. (of course, that we have seen)She is a nightmare, always was, nothing was relaxed ever. Sister is genius and I fall into genius range, but not as high as her. And we are both highly educated. But, according to above pp we should be dumb as dirt. |
This isn't true. Einstein was a good student. He didn't do well in an exam because he wasn't fluent in French, which the test was given in. Also, Zuckerberg dropped out of Harvard so obviously he is smart. I think it is a combination of both. Parents who talk and read to their children do improve their kids' intelligence. |
| almost every family has mental health and substance abuse issues |
a Is anyone else find it morally creepy that people are "creating" the perfect baby? It just seems you are trying to get the perfect kid and even if you had genius donors that your expectations are going to be super high for future kid. Why not look at the health of the women rather than the degrees? I suppose people have been choosing eye color/hair color/height but, there is something uneasy about it. Why not choose a donor that is closer to you? Are you a genius? |
I'm not really a Billy Joel fan but the man has written many successful songs and musical ability is definitely a sign of intelligence. I extend this to all musicians who write and play music. They are much smarter than you think. As for the Kardashians. Well, I suppose you could argue that they have capitalized on their name and been incredibly successful in doing so. Someone there is a genius. An evil genius, but still. |
| To a first approximation, intelligence is driven by parent genetics plus random noise, with “nurture” having a vanishingly small impact. |
Hate to pull this on a tangent, but do you think many were answering the ads? Trying to think back to my mindset at that age and seems like I would have been expecting to have as many kids of my own as I wanted and hesitant about having a child I'd never see (or even know came into existence). I'm sure not everyone thinks that way, but maybe that implies there's a bias in general in the donor population as to ways of thinking if one believes those are passed on. |
| Designer babies. Just don't do it. |
+1. But you'll get an uproar at the definition of a parent. Genetically, we all know who a parent is. |
Zuckerberg did not drop out because he could not keep up. He dropped out to become a billionaire at a younger age. Plus he can own Harvard if he wants too. He is a genius thanks to his genes. As are all the other famous dropouts. |
shhhhhh we are supposed to pretend it's about having a lot of books at home and reading to your child. everyone can be a genius if they spend a lot of time at the library! |
Have you ever endured years of infertility? Or perhaps the experienced trauma of a failed adoption? Or the particular hell I can speak to of years and years of pregnancy losses (in my case, 53 weeks of pregnancy -8 total pregnancies- over five years without ever holding a living baby)? The pathway to DE is often marked by tragedy and heartache. There is nothing glib about the decision to remove your genetics from the equation of motherhood. |