Woman is 35 never married but dates a lot

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35 is young. Half my college friends got married in their late 30s.

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Anonymous wrote:35 is young. Half my college friends got married in their late 30s.

I don't understand why late marriage is considered a badge of honor. Dating is tedious after a while.

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Anonymous wrote:Definitely. Any woman who is 35 and has never been married is obviously crazy.

LMAO.

Kind of like that nutcase Leonardo Dicaprio... he's 40 and unmarried. Watch out for the crazy train, folks!

Men can still have children in their 50s, women don't have that luxury.

They can if they freeze their eggs.

And men really shouldn't.. much greater risk of birth defects and disabilities

Yes, you can have kids later if you freeze your eggs. The problem is dealing with your kids after their born. It's take a ton of energy to deal with babies/toddlers. Yes, I know women today in their 50s are energetic, but does it really compare to when you are in your late 20s/early 30s? I'm not so sure I want to be birthing babies when I'm in my 50s, unless I have a 24/7 nanny who can assist.

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Anonymous wrote:For some reason I don't make any assumptions about never-married women in their late thirties, but with men of the same age, I do wonder what's going on with them (committment issues, baggage, etc). Not sure why.

Hypocrite

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Anonymous wrote:Definitely. Any woman who is 35 and has never been married is obviously crazy.

LMAO.

Kind of like that nutcase Leonardo Dicaprio... he's 40 and unmarried. Watch out for the crazy train, folks!

Exception to the rule

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Oh, God. I think people like that really want to be alone. They say they "deserve better," but deep down they don't believe they deserve someone as good as the one they've got.

No, it's the exact opposite. Try not to overthink it.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a single mom. Never been married. The only thing "wrong" with me is that I have a 24/7/365 child. Apparently this is quite a turn off to men. Even divorced men with kids of their own. They don't get that I don't have 50/50 custody until a few months into us dating. Since I already have a child, I am not desperate to get married so I can have kids like I imagine many women in their late 30s are. I'd be totally fine never getting married. It's all good for me.

The only thing "wrong" with you was having a baby out of wedlock.

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Anonymous wrote:For some reason I don't make any assumptions about never-married women in their late thirties, but with men of the same age, I do wonder what's going on with them (committment issues, baggage, etc). Not sure why.

Hypocrite

Late thirties I disagree, but early forties I agree. There are so many more date able women who want relationships than there are men, generally, becasue women are more likely to want a relationship and marriage than men. So if a guy has t found that by forty or so, a lot of times either he really is t that into being in a relationship or he has an issue etc.

Women, it's just tougher to find a good guy than it is to find a good woman to marry.

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Anonymous wrote:35 is young. Half my college friends got married in their late 30s.

Me too, it's quite normal in my circles.
Marrying late isn't necessarily a badge of honor, but it also doesn't require being branded with a scarlett C (for crazy) either.

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Women, it's just tougher to find a good guy than it is to find a good woman to marry.

You're right. Our opportunities expand as we get older while yours get smaller. The tables turn eventually.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a single mom. Never been married. The only thing "wrong" with me is that I have a 24/7/365 child. Apparently this is quite a turn off to men. Even divorced men with kids of their own. They don't get that I don't have 50/50 custody until a few months into us dating. Since I already have a child, I am not desperate to get married so I can have kids like I imagine many women in their late 30s are. I'd be totally fine never getting married. It's all good for me.

The only thing "wrong" with you was having a baby out of wedlock.

Guess that's my nail in the coffin. If having my child "out of wedlock" was wrong, I never want to be right.

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Anonymous wrote:Definitely. Any woman who is 35 and has never been married is obviously crazy.

Well there's obviously something wrong with her.

Yes . She's dating a man with a loser for a "friend"