Does your DH with a hairy back take his shirt off for swimming?

Anonymous
I LOVE hairy men. My DH is hairy; however, he cares about his skin so he wears a rash guard. My DS wears a rash guard, as well. No big deal. Who cares?
Anonymous
Grown men are often hairy and grown women almost always have cellulite, yet we still seem to procreate and keep our civilization afloat. OP's husband needs to work out his insecurities and get in the damned pool with his kids.
Anonymous
Back hair is natural. Who cares?

If he is that sensitive, he should just throw on a rash guard. My DH wears one b/c of family skin cancer. I see rash guards on dads at our neighborhood pool all the time.

No one is looking at what any dad is wearing to the pool. Seriously, he needs to get over his ego that anyone cares about his rash guard, his back hair, or anything else. Once you are a dad, unless you are Brad Pitt, no one is checking you out. You become basically sexless.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:32 yo man here. hairy. hate it. would pay anything to change it. still go in the pool though. hate body hair. hate it on myself, hate it on women i date. gross.


I say this with kindness, but have you thought about therapy? What if you met your dream woman but she didn't shave her legs?
Anonymous
This is precisely why I would never have married a man with a hairy back (or a very hairy man). Yuck!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This is precisely why I would never have married a man with a hairy back (or a very hairy man). Yuck!


your loss....

I would like to know the age of the people that hate hair. I bet they are all under 40.....that is, don't remember the 70's with Magnum PI
Anonymous
I'm 49!
Anonymous
I remember discussing this with a friend in college in the mid 80's and there was a guy who liked her but she could not get past all his hair and I told her I agreed with her.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is precisely why I would never have married a man with a hairy back (or a very hairy man). Yuck!


your loss....

I would like to know the age of the people that hate hair. I bet they are all under 40.....that is, don't remember the 70's with Magnum PI

Hubba Hubba! I'm 30 and have been watching reruns
Anonymous
Saw a guy at the pool yesterday who looked like he was wearing a sweater and thought about this post. He was playing with his kids, having a good time, and I just kind of wanted to high five him. We're mammals. It's just one of those things.
Anonymous
I'm 37 and love a hairy man... !
Anonymous
My hairy DH not only takes off his shirt for swimming, he sleeps in the buff and I STILL love/desire him.
Anonymous
Rash guard. Everyone seems to wear them now, and they are a God send for the hairy backed sensitive guy. Also, it's totally impossible to get the sunscreen through the hair and onto the skin -- I'm so glad not to have to do that anymore.
And the rash guards are so tight that they show off the muscles from working out.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My hairy DH not only takes off his shirt for swimming, he sleeps in the buff and I STILL love/desire him.


+1. Love my hairy hubby.
Anonymous
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