This is my gifted kid exactly. |
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Op, please. Calm down and just love your kid. I'm so grateful I grew up in the Midwest so I can see this type A garbage for what it is. I want my kid to be successful- who doesn't? But also to be a good person that people like to work with.
You need a vacation. |
How exactly does a 1-2 month old demonstrate critical thinking? DC-area moms kill me. |
I, too, would like to know the answer to this. |
LOL, yes, me too. |
OK I will try. At 11 months my son, watching my DH get into the car to go to work said " Daddy gets dressed ... goes out the door ... and goes to work" a simple but accurate sentence. |
That isn't gifted. That isn't critical thinking. That is an early talker. Nothing more. Nothing less. |
11 months is not 1 month. |
| At 1 month I was thrilled of ds was awake long enough to finish a bottle and didn't per on me during diaper changes. |
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My child hit developmental milestones early and also learned colors, how to read, and retained esoteric facts at a young age.
I don't think he's gifted; I think he's a sponge with bright parents who is the product of his environment. We throw the term gifted around too much when what we really mean is smart or learning very well. |
Truly insane and hilarious. Still waiting to hear about what that 1-2 month old is doing to show their critical thinking skills. ("Should I shit my pants now or later? Should I suck on that nice lady's boobs for 20 minutes or 30 minutes? Hey, when I scream, the lady with the boobs comes running! I'm totally going to scream all the time!") |
| New poster here and count me with those who are still waiting to hear about critical thinking skills in a 1-2 month old. |
| One of my "gifted" babies is now doing quite well in hs- taking all ap and honors classes. The other "gifted" baby is doing quite mediocre. Very bright but hampered by executive function issues and low motivation. |
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It's a total crapshoot. One child was a very late talker -- we even did county speech therapy -- but by 3 was incredibly verbal, reading at 4, top of class in K and 1st. Now she's still very bright and towards the top of class but no genius, certainly. She'll always be a quick study, but it's evening out some.
Another child met all milestones early. Very active, very curious, and did everything early -- walking, running, talking, climbing, reading. He's very very smart -- IQ around 135 to 145 -- but also has tremendous ADHD and other issues. Every kid is his or her own basket or talents, struggles and oddities. To paraphrase Forrest Gump's mother, each kid is like a whole box of chocolates -- you never know what you're going to get. One day may be the caramel cream (yay!), another day or issue may be one filled with that weird liquor. |
| My daughter is 3 and hitting milestones for 4-5 year olds. Do I think she's gifted? Not really, I think she's a sponge and a fast learner. For her early milestones she walked on-time, started speaking on-time, but was speaking in sentences early. Her comprehension once she hit 2 also really exploded (still probably the upper end of normal). I guess we'll see in a few years, but I'm still leaning towards normal. The grandparents on the other hand... They are going to inflate her little ego big time! |