I Did Not Have Sex With That Woman

[Anonymous]

I am going to defend OP here. I'm a married woman who hasn't had sex (or any inappropriate physical contact) with my single male friend. My DH decided we were having an affair. That put the nail in the coffin of my marriage. It probably couldn't have been saved anyway, and my friend and I probably would not have gotten so close if the marriage had been on better footing, but DH's crazy behavior and accusations certainly did not help. There are times when I've wished he would have hired a PI or planted cameras and realized there was never anything going on. Yes, emotional intimacy is playing with fire but if you can do it without crossing the line into sexual innuendo or activity then the spouse needs to calm down and both partners in the marriage need to look at what's missing, not blame the third person.

[Anonymous]

Hello? Angie Dickinson are you still out there?

[Anonymous]

Where to Officer Grammar Girl go?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am going to defend OP here. I'm a married woman who hasn't had sex (or any inappropriate physical contact) with my single male friend. My DH decided we were having an affair. That put the nail in the coffin of my marriage. It probably couldn't have been saved anyway, and my friend and I probably would not have gotten so close if the marriage had been on better footing, but DH's crazy behavior and accusations certainly did not help. There are times when I've wished he would have hired a PI or planted cameras and realized there was never anything going on. Yes, emotional intimacy is playing with fire but if you can do it without crossing the line into sexual innuendo or activity then the spouse needs to calm down and both partners in the marriage need to look at what's missing, not blame the third person.

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He wasn't blaming the third party - that's what's funny - he's blaming the wife. He thinks he's writing about his wife's problems...

[Anonymous]

This post (and the responses) proves, yet again, that married men and single women can NEVER be friends!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This post (and the responses) proves, yet again, that married men and single women can NEVER be friends!

Funny, I just thought it proved OP was an attention whoring crazy person.

[Anonymous]

It may in-fact prove that, and his wife is likely crazier than batshit too, but my original assertion still remains.