I Did Not Have Sex With That Woman

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, i don't care whether you or my DW believe whether I f**ked the ÓW or not. I did not. So there!

You're the psycho. I can't believe how unstable your posts appear. I feel sorry for your wife

[Anonymous]

Since this is a non-explicit forum let me say it this way, you state that you haven't been joined in the biblical sense and I will give you that since I have no idea to the contrary. But I will say that based on what you wrote you have been joined in many other ways that most would consider intimate. There are more parts to intimacy than full on sexual relations and a couple of those include the mental and emotional connection.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, i don't care whether you or my DW believe whether I f**ked the ÓW or not. I did not. So there!

That's not relevant. You were dating another woman - taking her out for walks, lunches and drinks after work. You expended all your emotional energy on her, and you wonder why your wife thinks you were cheating? Because you WERE cheating. An emotional affair is still an affair.

[Anonymous]

So, it would be better just so it in the biblical sense?

[Anonymous]

Any time a guy refers to his ex or current partner as a "psycho," I always take it w/a grain of salt.

Sometimes men can do things to women to make them appear crazy, but they never like to accept any responsibility in doing so. It's much easier to label them a "psycho" than admitting they contributed to someone's unstableness.

Haven't you ever heard, "Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned....??" Perfect example of what I meant.

Anyway, I do not believe you OP. I think you slept w/this woman + I do not think your "Dear" Wife is overreacting.

What is probably driving her behavior is that you are not admitting it to her. W/out closure, to be in limbo like she is....It's no wonder she is acting this way.

Just come clean and admit to her the truth. At least meet her halfway here so she has something.

So, the DW is not responsible behavior? I guess if a man lost his sh*t b/c DW cheated he wouldn't be responsible for his behavior either?

Because not knowing is much worse.

[Anonymous]

Did John Wayne make Lorena do it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So, it would be better just so it in the biblical sense?

You missed the point by such a wide margin there can be no response.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Any time a guy refers to his ex or current partner as a "psycho," I always take it w/a grain of salt.

Sometimes men can do things to women to make them appear crazy, but they never like to accept any responsibility in doing so. It's much easier to label them a "psycho" than admitting they contributed to someone's unstableness.

Haven't you ever heard, "Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned....??" Perfect example of what I meant.

Anyway, I do not believe you OP. I think you slept w/this woman + I do not think your "Dear" Wife is overreacting.

What is probably driving her behavior is that you are not admitting it to her. W/out closure, to be in limbo like she is....It's no wonder she is acting this way.

Just come clean and admit to her the truth. At least meet her halfway here so she has something.

So, the DW is not responsible behavior? I guess if a man lost his sh*t b/c DW cheated he wouldn't be responsible for his behavior either?

Because not knowing is much worse.

The Dear Wife is simply defending her heart here.

She most likely invested her whole being into your marriage and this is the dividend she gets back??

What do you expect from a wife? For her to not get angry or act out.

Like Little Miss Muppet who sat on her tuppet....


We are talking about genuine authentic hurt here.

[Anonymous]

Well, she should not have been ignoring me, putting down my needs, belittling me and my work to support our family and she definitely should not have been doing that other guy! She has no ground to stand on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, she should not have been ignoring me, putting down my needs, belittling me and my work to support our family and she definitely should not have been doing that other guy! She has no ground to stand on.

You are an idiot. Like going out on dates for FOUR years was going to help anything in your marriage. Deal with your sH!t and stop trying to blame her.. It's one reason your marriage got to this point. There's no attempt from you to look at your contribution. There's nothing here that says your sorry. Just trying to bash your wife, just being angry in your posts. you're sick.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, she should not have been ignoring me, putting down my needs, belittling me and my work to support our family and she definitely should not have been doing that other guy! She has no ground to stand on.

You are an idiot. Like going out on dates for FOUR years was going to help anything in your marriage. Deal with your sH!t and stop trying to blame her.. It's one reason your marriage got to this point. There's no attempt from you to look at your contribution. There's nothing here that says your sorry. Just trying to bash your wife, just being angry in your posts. you're sick.

PLUS, PLUS, PLUS!!!

I am guessing the OP really believed that most would side with him and is shocked and defensive finding out that isn't the case!

[Anonymous]

I'm failing to understand how the DH going on "dates" with his co-worker somehow explains his DW's reaction and her reaction justifies her behavior. If DW cheated and DH lost his sh*t and beat her in a rage, would his reaction justify his behavior b/c DW made him act crazy? That seems to be the gist of the argument some have made here. For a site that is replete with lawyers, the leaps in logic some people make on these fora are quite amazing.

[Anonymous]

Because DH isn't really posting to get answers. What he really wants is a list of web site posts that prove he is right and she is wrong. Approaching his marriage like that, he might as well divorce now. Like I said, I feel sorry for his wife. He's a jerk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:... But i night as we'll have the way you Her? my DW tel the story. Over The last four years, I worked very closely with a ver attractive, smart, funny woman. We became fast friends as we were often on business trips together, and we often would do lunch or cocktails after work or walks along the Mall at lunch. We very much enjoyed each other's company. She is divorced. I am not. I will admit that our conversations could on occasion be playfully flirtatious, but there was never any sexual connotation. It was fun though to have a woman be coquettish, and she certain,y did boost my ego in a way my DW stopped doing long ago. If I didn't have an ounce of integrity, I might have tried to f**k her. And she also had the good sense to keep me honest, which I much admire in her. However, my DW decided she and I had a sexual relationship and she harps on this everyday. DW sent nasty emails and made phone calls to the point that she got a no contact order against my DW. I am, of course, mortified and if I wasn't considering a divorce before I might now considering my DW CPUs showing Her unstable colors.

you actually have a job? I gave up reading that after 2 sentences. apologies if English sin't your first language, but you really need a remedial English class

[Anonymous]

Typos. Typing on a phone with multi- lingual capabilities. Sometimes, if my keyboard is set to another language I get weird autocorrects. For example, you might swe something luk? wiat you're seeing nów. However, I will salute your perfection. I humble myself before you grammar goddess. Now, go back to your English class. With high school do you teach at you nettlesome shrew?