Man charged with knowingly transferring HIV to woman he met at Bethesda bar

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:you just met someone at a bar and you don't use condoms? not letting the guy off the hook but what about personal responsibility?

That's your first reaction to hearing that a guy knowingly transmitted HIV to another person??

Not this poster but yes, it's what I thought too. The article I read said they had sex several times during the weekend. In all those times having sex, the victim didnt ask the man to wear a condom? Not even the first time they had sex? WTF

I have yet to meet a guy who will use a condom. They all refuse and just say they are clean.

How old are you?

30

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you just met someone at a bar and you don't use condoms? not letting the guy off the hook but what about personal responsibility?

That's your first reaction to hearing that a guy knowingly transmitted HIV to another person??

Not this poster but yes, it's what I thought too. The article I read said they had sex several times during the weekend. In all those times having sex, the victim didnt ask the man to wear a condom? Not even the first time they had sex? WTF

I have yet to meet a guy who will use a condom. They all refuse and just say they are clean.

How old are you?

30

Yea. You were too young to understand when AIDs first hit. Unfortunately, it looks like this guy is a one man epidemic and you'll see soon if you are in DC metro

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It seems worse than just one woman he met at a bar.

http://www.nbc12.com/story/26700259/police-henrico-man-accused-of-spreading-hiv-through-sex-with-women

Oh he's a rapist

And a psychopath...

http://thedirty.com/2011/01/pathetic-d-bags/

Is that really him? Bet he made the rounds in arlington too
Those poor women

Poor women? They weren't raped. We all make choices in life people - sometimes that results in babies, at other times it results in STDs. It's called RESPONSIBILITY. Holy hell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you just met someone at a bar and you don't use condoms? not letting the guy off the hook but what about personal responsibility?

That's your first reaction to hearing that a guy knowingly transmitted HIV to another person??

Not this poster but yes, it's what I thought too. The article I read said they had sex several times during the weekend. In all those times having sex, the victim didnt ask the man to wear a condom? Not even the first time they had sex? WTF

I have yet to meet a guy who will use a condom. They all refuse and just say they are clean.

How old are you?

30

Not PP, but I am 33. You are talking to the WRONG guys, sweetheart.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you just met someone at a bar and you don't use condoms? not letting the guy off the hook but what about personal responsibility?

That's your first reaction to hearing that a guy knowingly transmitted HIV to another person??

Not this poster but yes, it's what I thought too. The article I read said they had sex several times during the weekend. In all those times having sex, the victim didnt ask the man to wear a condom? Not even the first time they had sex? WTF

I have yet to meet a guy who will use a condom. They all refuse and just say they are clean.

How old are you?

30

Yea. You were too young to understand when AIDs first hit. Unfortunately, it looks like this guy is a one man epidemic and you'll see soon if you are in DC metro

No 30 isn't too young to understand about how serious AIDS was, or crack, both rampant in the 80s. This PP is being foolish. If men are refusing condoms, it is because PP is letting them. Sex is consensual. Stop allowing that. For your own sake.

[Anonymous]

She might have thought the chances were highly unlikely. Let's be honest, the face of HIV/AIDS is not a White woman or man in Bethesda. And I say this as a Black woman.

I'm early 30s and I remember when people were dropping like flies in the 80s and early 90s. My siblings are mid-20s and younger and they don't know of anyone who has died from complications. People seemingly live forever with meds today.

So keep that in mind before you judge. If she's using BC, she might have thought her biggest threat was something that could be treated with antibiotics.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you just met someone at a bar and you don't use condoms? not letting the guy off the hook but what about personal responsibility?

That's your first reaction to hearing that a guy knowingly transmitted HIV to another person??

Not this poster but yes, it's what I thought too. The article I read said they had sex several times during the weekend. In all those times having sex, the victim didnt ask the man to wear a condom? Not even the first time they had sex? WTF

I have yet to meet a guy who will use a condom. They all refuse and just say they are clean.

How old are you?

30

Yea. You were too young to understand when AIDs first hit. Unfortunately, it looks like this guy is a one man epidemic and you'll see soon if you are in DC metro

No 30 isn't too young to understand about how serious AIDS was, or crack, both rampant in the 80s. This PP is being foolish. If men are refusing condoms, it is because PP is letting them. Sex is consensual. Stop allowing that. For your own sake.

Disagree with this. Crack and AIDs wasn't rampant everywhere in the US.

[Anonymous]

So this woman has random sex and then claims he gave her aids. But she probably sleeps with a lot of men and any of them could have given her aids. Or she probably has infected others. So this man is being charged because he is hiv positive, not for having sex with her

[Anonymous]

I'm PP 0:24.

First, my comment was in response to the 30 year old that says "I have yet to meet a guy that will use a condom. They ALL refuse and insist they are clean." That thinking is irresponsible at 30. It's dangerous for self, aids or not. It wasn't in response to the article.

2nd I never said crack was rampant in the us. I said it was rampant. And it was here in DC. Don't put words in my mouth.

3rd, Even if you aren't concerned about AIDS, or the face of it, I still stand solid in the argument that at 30 you are old enough to know that having unprotected sex is stupid and risky. THAT is the foolish behavior - cognizant of AIDS or not. Hello, what about pregnancy, herpes, chlamydia, clap, HPV, and a crapload of other STDS, those are all risks too...! Or what, do people not care anymore?! Just pop a pill and live with it? SMH.

If you don't know that is one thing, but once you know better do better. Or you maybe bound to repeat some lessons in life.

As far as the article goes, he was dead wrong, but they both shoulda wrapped it up. If he refused, it would have been end of story there. Guess I'm old school 30s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It seems worse than just one woman he met at a bar.

http://www.nbc12.com/story/26700259/police-henrico-man-accused-of-spreading-hiv-through-sex-with-women

Oh he's a rapist

And a psychopath...

http://thedirty.com/2011/01/pathetic-d-bags/

Is that really him? Bet he made the rounds in arlington too
Those poor women

Poor women? They weren't raped. We all make choices in life people - sometimes that results in babies, at other times it results in STDs. It's called RESPONSIBILITY. Holy hell.

Uh. Read the rest of the articles. Women going to bed alone and passing out and the he has sex with them. Women blacking out at bars ...sounds like rape to me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So this woman has random sex and then claims he gave her aids. But she probably sleeps with a lot of men and any of them could have given her aids. Or she probably has infected others. So this man is being charged because he is hiv positive, not for having sex with her

It's multiple charges now. Do you people read?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she's using BC, she might have thought her biggest threat was something that could be treated with antibiotics.

Well then she's a big idiot - she deserves whatever STD she gets - most aren't treatable by antibiotics.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So this woman has random sex and then claims he gave her aids. But she probably sleeps with a lot of men and any of them could have given her aids. Or she probably has infected others. So this man is being charged because he is hiv positive, not for having sex with her

It's multiple charges now. Do you people read?

I read. Do you see that the Bethesda woman in question, per OPs link is not claiming rape? It was consensual sex for her.

His behavior (knowingly transferring HIV, sexual assault with others) and her behavior (consensual sex without a condom) are both independent valid concerns, but both are wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She might have thought the chances were highly unlikely. Let's be honest, the face of HIV/AIDS is not a White woman or man in Bethesda. And I say this as a Black woman.

I'm early 30s and I remember when people were dropping like flies in the 80s and early 90s. My siblings are mid-20s and younger and they don't know of anyone who has died from complications. People seemingly live forever with meds today.

So keep that in mind before you judge. If she's using BC, she might have thought her biggest threat was something that could be treated with antibiotics.

The bolder above is an ignorant comment.

On the contrary, the face of AIDS IS a white woman or man in Bethesda. That's the whole point. People who think a person has to "look" a certain way to be "clean" are foolish. HIV isn't driven by (insert stereotype) people! Anyone can have it. Maybe instead people should keep in mind to judge more carefully, with a more conservative approach! And "seemingly living forever" with HIV still has it's complications, meds or not.

Respectfully,
Another AA woman w/ a 20 something AA relative that is living w/ HIV transmitted from a gay white person

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So this woman has random sex and then claims he gave her aids. But she probably sleeps with a lot of men and any of them could have given her aids. Or she probably has infected others. So this man is being charged because he is hiv positive, not for having sex with her

It's multiple charges now. Do you people read?

I read. Do you see that the Bethesda woman in question, per OPs link is not claiming rape? It was consensual sex for her.

His behavior (knowingly transferring HIV, sexual assault with others) and her behavior (consensual sex without a condom) are both independent valid concerns, but both are wrong.

I am OP the additional articles and blogs are posted in thread its multiple women and blacking out etc...