If you could go back in time would you still have kids?

[Anonymous]

i wonder how many said yes have the special needs kids. my child's needs are mild on the whole spectrum but challenging. would i still parent? yes, but i would wait longer and do it with a great man.

[Anonymous]

Yes but much earlier and with a different man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, but I would have done it much sooner, while I was younger (I waited until late 30's).

Ditto.

[Anonymous]

Yes. My kids have made me a better person. The need I feel to be the best person I can be, for them, so they can be good people and be proud to have me as a mom, is the most surprising gift that parenthood has given me. They make me smile and laugh every day. They drive me crazy... But they've given me the ability to live life twice. Once through my eyes, and once through theirs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nope. Parenting is overrated. Would settle for being a kick ass aunt.

+1

Same here!

[Anonymous]

No or I would have stopped at one.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I wish we would have had more "us" time before I got pregnant, but in a way, having a child brought us closer together. (I got pregnant on the pill.)

On the plus side, it gave his mother a chance to be a grandmother before she passed. She didn't get to spend much time with our second before she passed.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I've been with my DH since we were 21. Only thing I would change isI would have the earlier and I would have had a 3rd. As it is, I would never have a child after the age of 35, so my ship has sailed for #3.

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

Yes. That said, I'm jealous of childless friends for their time, disposable income, freedom, and sleep. Very jealous. But I still love my life as mom without those four.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nope. Parenting is overrated. Would settle for being a kick ass aunt.

I should probably add that I LOVE my children and my life. I cherish our family time. With that said, I look forward to being an empty nester! (Kids are 18, 14, 11 & 5).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. That said, I'm jealous of childless friends for their time, disposable income, freedom, and sleep. Very jealous. But I still love my life as mom without those four.

I have zero jealousy of my childless friends. I can't imagine having their life. However, I have an amazing DH who is truly a partner in raising our children, so for me, it has been a wonderful ride. I think having a spouse you love and who pitches in makes the experience a huge difference.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. And I would have had them earlier. Being an old mom super sucks. I'm jealous of my sister who had her kids when she was younger.

Just curious...why? Is it because you wanted more? I had mine younger (mid-20s) but feel like there are pros and cons to having kids at any age, but it all balances out in the end.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes. That said, I'm jealous of childless friends for their time, disposable income, freedom, and sleep. Very jealous. But I still love my life as mom without those four.

I have zero jealousy of my childless friends. I can't imagine having their life. However, I have an amazing DH who is truly a partner in raising our children, so for me, it has been a wonderful ride. I think having a spouse you love and who pitches in makes the experience a huge difference.

You can't imagine their lives? We're you never childless?

[Anonymous]

No, I would choose not to have children. I feel like I missed out on a lot of opportunities by having a child.