BINGO! It will never happen, though, because those in expensive neighborhoods will exercise influence to see that it doesn't. They don't want their kids rubbing elbows with children from poor families. Housing, it is all about housing. |
I love the melodramatic picture you have painted. Poor little rich girl. |
Is this post tongue-in-cheek, or real? Seriously? |
Is this from a teenager or a parent? Lord help us if it's a parent.
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| But can't she still have all of those things at the DCC school? The county wouldn't be taking away her money or her car, just sending her to a different school. You could actually take a whole neighborhood and send them to a DCC school so that there would still be a community school. |
But it would be so sad, if the rich girl couldn't have the over-the-top prom she'd always dreamed of, just because all of those pesky poor students in her class! |
You're missing the point and focusing on the W student prom aspect. Look at the bigger picture--why does the W student have to give up the life she is used to? Why can't she stay at her school? And while everyone is focusing on the W student going to the DCC school--no one is addressing the social/economic impact to the DCC student who is now at the W school? What about that child's feelings? How does that family pay for things that are the norm at the higher SES school? I'm not disputing that the education provided should be level across the county. I believe that all schools should offer the same courses and rigor. If one school in a cluster offers Chinese, then one school in EACH cluster should offer Chinese so that all children across the county have access to a similar education. |
You're missing the point and focusing on the W student prom aspect. Look at the bigger picture--why does the W student have to give up the life she is used to? Why can't she stay at her school? And while everyone is focusing on the W student going to the DCC school--no one is addressing the social/economic impact to the DCC student who is now at the W school? What about that child's feelings? How does that family pay for things that are the norm at the higher SES school? I'm not disputing that the education provided should be level across the county. I believe that all schools should offer the same courses and rigor. If one school in a cluster offers Chinese, then one school in EACH cluster should offer Chinese so that all children across the county have access to a similar education. What you're saying is that public schools should be economically segregated for the self-esteem of the students. All I can say about that is that I disagree. |
If you took an entire neighborhood so that there was still a community cohesion, I think that would be good. If you took students by lottery, I think you would lose the neighborhood school feel. But that brings up another point---what about driving back and forth for after school activities? It's great when the kids get their licenses and can drive, but for the 1st 2 yrs of HS, that's not reality. And if my kid needs me to pick her up across the county that's going to present a transportation issue. Or if my kid has a program in the evening that I just can't get to because of other children, transportation, and traffic, that's also an issue. |
What you're saying is that public schools should be economically segregated for the self-esteem of the students. All I can say about that is that I disagree. Ok--how to propose to address a teenagers self-esteem? A huge part of HS is fitting in. How do you propose you help the kids fit in? |
Compared to the rest of the US, we are considered upper SES, but here in DC area, we are probably average. That said, the school my DCs go to have some families that are wealthier than us, and some that are poorer than us. That's just life. Unless you are #1 on Forbes richest at all times, someone will always have more than you. A teenager, on both sides of the SES, can deal with this reality. I grew up middle/lower SES, and I remember not having any money on field trips, etc.. while my friends did. It did suck. But it was life. I'm pretty sure my parents would have rather had me at an academically enriching school than a lower performing one just to save my feelings. |
Ok--how to propose to address a teenagers self-esteem? A huge part of HS is fitting in. How do you propose you help the kids fit in? Bizarre. |
I don't think it's fair to say that all people who live in the green zone chose to live there to get "as far as possible from the poor people." I'm sure there are some, but there are also a bunch like us who lived in DC in very mixed neighborhoods, and who hoped to get a better academic experience in MD. Would have been great to retain more diversity, while getting what we wanted in terms of things like walkability, commute time, and yes, the high performing schools, but we couldn't have it all. The fact of the matter is that MoCo is pretty segregated -- I get that I don't help matters by choosing a green zone school instead of living in the red zone (seriously never heard these terms before two weeks ago), but it is not a situation I created because I allegedly dislike poor people. FWIW, I'm not white, and our household income is quite modest. We were able to buy here only because we were lucky to own a house in DC that appreciated a ton. Yes, we are lucky, and perhaps even "privileged" in the scheme of things -- but I don't deserve the suggestion that I must despise the poor because of where I chose to live. |