Considering an affair.....is it a huge mistake
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Anonymous
funny! 
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Anonymous
| OP, you have to talk to you husband. Tell him you don't want to get divorced but you want some more excitement and you aren't happy. See if he spices things up. Or you could ask him to consider an open marriage and then you would not be lying and cheating. If he agrees, do not take any action to have sex with the other man for 6 months. Consider this long and hard before you jump. |
Anonymous
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Big mistake. It is normal to crave some excitement even imagining being with someone else but keeping it your fantasy and allowing it to become reality are two way different things.
Put your feelings aside and think of your family and H. They are innocent here and it will destroy your family. What if your H did this? How would it make you feel? Once done there is no going back, for me the guilt would rip me apart and I couldn't' keep it in for 3 hours!!!!! Think about that part....can you even hide it if you wanted to? |
Anonymous
| My suggestion is to remain friends only with your almost soon-to-be-lover. Don't have sex or an emotional relationship with this person! What you should do is find someone new, a fuck buddy, that you can have wild and crazy sex with! This will take the edge off and keep things semi-noncomplicated. Everyone needs a good fucking every once in a while and especially after 22 years! REALLY! Go fuck someone and have some fun! Life is too short not to! |
Anonymous
| Op remember the saying... The grass is greener where you water it. Having an affair is not going to make your marriage or life better. If things are that bad at home, work on fixing them, or send your DH on his way instead of causing a lot of drama. |