Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I guess I read your post differently than the other posters? I have had said something similar to one of my staff about getting an au pair, but not because I was annoyed. I was trying, in a subtle way to warn her that the project was starting to ask questions.
You need to be upfront with your staff. That passive-aggressive subtly warning stuff is not going to help you 1) if you have to fire her later becuase you need to be straightforward and document things with people and 2) its only going to piss her off. Say to her "the project is starting to ask questions" but before you do that, decide whether that is reasonable.