I dont like overnight guests

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't like people in my space. My home is a place of peace. I am not willing to compromise and be uncomfortable in my one place in the world that is peaceful. And its offensive that people think they can just burst into my space. Why would you even want to stay somewhere that is not going to be welcoming?

You are such a horses's patoot that I cannot believe anyone would even eant to spend a nanosecond with you. You need professional help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't like people in my space. My home is a place of peace. I am not willing to compromise and be uncomfortable in my one place in the world that is peaceful. And its offensive that people think they can just burst into my space. Why would you even want to stay somewhere that is not going to be welcoming?

How are they bursting into your space overnight? You are either inviting them or saying yes when they ask about staying with you. I agree with the others - this isn't introversion, it is self-centeredness. You don't sound like someone anyone would enjoy being around, so I am surprised they want to stay with you.

[Anonymous]

I love when people come to my house. Its usually friends and family that are passing through DC or coming here as tourists. I do need some advance warning (because with 2 kids, my house is not ship shape), so I can clean and cook, and host them.

I feel very grateful that my house is a lucky house which has attracted so many of my friends and relatives and they have visited us.

I also love when kids friends come over for sleep-overs and parties. I have watched how these kids have grown over the years, and it makes me feel happy to know that my kids have made friends with some really wonderful kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Im an introvert too and NEED my space ( even with DH and kids). I can have overnight vuests but one night only.. Anymore and I just need them to leave (even close friends and family). Maybe I am selfish but it is draining for me to have other people in my space too long

This x 1000.

I hate having overnight guests and hate (perhaps even more) feeling pressured to stay in someone else's home. Honestly, I'd prefer to never entertain at all. Why can't we all just go out for a nice dinner together or do a play date at a park somewhere?

[Anonymous]

I don't understand what this issue has to do with being an introvert or an extrovert. I'm more on the extro side, but I don't particularly like people in my space for long periods of time, either. Of course, I guess it depends some on who those people are.

[Anonymous]

This is part of why our family of 4 still lives in a small 2bedroom- no family staying over!! (but single friends can crash in the sofa!)

[Anonymous]

Who is staying with you? How are they getting in? If you hate it so much, just refuse them!

[Anonymous]

We love having guests even in our previous small 2000 sf house. The trick is to have a seperate guest room and bath on a different level. In our current house we have 3x the amount of space and another level separating the bedrooms and the basement guest suite.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't like people in my space. My home is a place of peace. I am not willing to compromise and be uncomfortable in my one place in the world that is peaceful. And its offensive that people think they can just burst into my space. Why would you even want to stay somewhere that is not going to be welcoming?

You are such a horses's patoot that I cannot believe anyone would even eant to spend a nanosecond with you. You need professional help.

I agree. My space is a place for peace not a bed and breakfast

[Anonymous]

I think that people's home is either dirty or a hoarder's nightmare and that is the reason that they cannot host overnight guests.

[Anonymous]

This thread is from 2013.

[Anonymous]

Me too, and I would never dream of asking someone if I can stay at their house if I visited their city.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate being an overnight guest.

And I hate that people get offended when I don't want to stay at their house.

+1. I will always choose to stay in a hotel.

[Anonymous]

It is great when they stay only two nights. Anything longer and I get annoyed.

[Anonymous]

So OP ....reading between the lines....you should hook up at their place. You can leave after you are done and no over night guess problem!