My children only wear Janie and Jack

[Anonymous]

So you are saying that if I buy J & J second hand and you buy it new, my child will have less pride in their appearance than yours?? My child will know he has a blue shirt..that is hopefully clean and comfortable. My child will know that your child also has a blue shirt...and probably think that is very cool.

[Anonymous]

My DD only wears Gucci.

This is how she went to daycare today

http://www.gucci.com/us/category/f/girls__2_12_years_?mkw=gucci%20kids&pcrid=10631855426&pmt=e&mkwid=sR1D6ISI7&gclid=CInI9fDh7LACFUff4AodQmloxg#look3428

When people comment on how much her outfits cost, I usually say: "This is none of your fucking business, but thanks for asking!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DD only wears Gucci.

This is how she went to daycare today

http://www.gucci.com/us/category/f/girls__2_12_years_?mkw=gucci%20kids&pcrid=10631855426&pmt=e&mkwid=sR1D6ISI7&gclid=CInI9fDh7LACFUff4AodQmloxg#look3428

When people comment on how much her outfits cost, I usually say: "This is none of your fucking business, but thanks for asking!"

Little warm for that today, dontcha think?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good thing you are all so superior, I aspire to be just like you.

As well you should, minion. Now back to the salt mines.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DD only wears Gucci.

This is how she went to daycare today

http://www.gucci.com/us/category/f/girls__2_12_years_?mkw=gucci%20kids&pcrid=10631855426&pmt=e&mkwid=sR1D6ISI7&gclid=CInI9fDh7LACFUff4AodQmloxg#look3428

When people comment on how much her outfits cost, I usually say: "This is none of your fucking business, but thanks for asking!"

Little warm for that today, dontcha think?

Yeah, but it's da look! Gotta show off that 900-dollar parka!

[Anonymous]

Op, who cares? You are putting WAY too much thought into this. Go read a book and find other things to talk about.

Oh, and I'm the onesie poster and would never pay $3 for your used onesie. People resell those for 50 cents to $1. I'm surprised anyone would pay that.

[Anonymous]

I don't get it, who is Janie and Jack?

[Anonymous]

My DD mostly wears J&J, sometimes Baby Dior, and Naturino shoes. I get them on eBay and consignment, because I love the quality at those prices. For the same price, I prefer doing this than buying new outfits at Target.

Being RELATIVELY poor (for this forum and this area) does not mean I cannot choose pretty things for my children or forego retirement.

[Anonymous]

OP, people are so obnoxious for making comments on what your children wear in a "I can't believe you're spending so much money" kind of tone. They're jealous. Sad, but true.

I have a close friend whose kids pretty much only wear Janie and Jack. They always look ADORABLE, and I can't help but comment on how cute they look every time I see them! I love Janie and Jack's clothes. I don't have the money though to buy them on a regular basis. I splurge sometimes when something is really adorable, but otherwise I stay away.

I wouldn't explain away why you spend a lot of money on your kid's clothes. It's no one's business what you spend. You obviously have the money to do it if that's where you're shopping, and it sucks that you feel like you have to make excuses for having the money to shop there for your kids. If I were you, I would just say "thanks" when people compliment their clothing or how cute they look. That's it. No explanation of what you bought on sale, etc. People shouldn't have to explain away why they have money -- it's not something you should feel guilty about.

[Anonymous]

Come on, guys, I don't think OP was trying to be snobby or showing off in any way.

OP, I probably can't afford Janie and Jack (I usually shop at Target, and the like and I'm more of a quantity vs quality gal ), but I'm not surprised that there would be some great sales at times. If others comment, it's totally fine to say you got it on sale, though it isn't really their business.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, if you like J&J, try the clothes at Wheat. Their flagship store is in Annapolis and they have a couple of big sales during the year. Just call and ask, but I know one is usually in August. Their clothes are adorable and well-made and, if you have girls, most of their dresses are cut so that they can grow with the kid and become tunics and be worn for years.

http://www.wheatusa.com/index.html

Wheat is much cuter than J&J, which I don't really care for. I tend to dress my DS in Crewcuts for play clothes, Papo d'Anjo for dress. Unfortunately, Papo went out of business but I am getting some handed down items. I just love that style. If anyone has recommendations for similar styles I would love them! FYI, I don't particularly like Gucci or Burberry for boys.

[Anonymous]

Clearly you and I have very different HHI. That being said, I love to occasionally look at websites for things like J&J since they are beautiful and who knows, I might catch an amazing sale.

I often comment if I see a child in a cute outfit and tell the mom how adorable the child looks, but never ask or reference cost. A simple "Thanks so much!" is a totally fine response. If someone mentions price, a gracious "I'm a huge fan of end of season sales" again does the trick even if you happen to pay full price.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, people are so obnoxious for making comments on what your children wear in a "I can't believe you're spending so much money" kind of tone. They're jealous. Sad, but true.

I have a close friend whose kids pretty much only wear Janie and Jack. They always look ADORABLE, and I can't help but comment on how cute they look every time I see them! I love Janie and Jack's clothes. I don't have the money though to buy them on a regular basis. I splurge sometimes when something is really adorable, but otherwise I stay away.

I wouldn't explain away why you spend a lot of money on your kid's clothes. It's no one's business what you spend. You obviously have the money to do it if that's where you're shopping, and it sucks that you feel like you have to make excuses for having the money to shop there for your kids. If I were you, I would just say "thanks" when people compliment their clothing or how cute they look. That's it. No explanation of what you bought on sale, etc. People shouldn't have to explain away why they have money -- it's not something you should feel guilty about.

Trust me, we are not jealous. I am just in disbelief that this is actually a subject swimming around in someone's head. DumDum.

[Anonymous]

The same thing annoys me about people's commentary on my own designer accessories. I recycle things when I tire of them and quality items from quality brands sell with ease on ebay. Sometimes for more than I paid. The highlight of my ebay sales has been a chanel bag i bought for 1600 and sold for 3400 and a vintage crocodile Fendi bag I bought for $700 and sold for $3000. Clothing doesn't appreciate the same, however sometimes you get lucky and people pay more than you did because it is sold out or a past season they can no longer get. I like having fewer quality items
especially for wardrobe staple items and handbags and cheap stuff is solely for workout clothes or knits for loungi
ng at home. I am currently expect a girl and selling off all my sons items that he has grown out of that are no unisex and recycling that money into girls clothes.

[Anonymous]

I'm trying to guess whether the baby brand whores are white exurban strivers with unwittingly bad highlights OR a certain type of mom of color I know, closer in, who shop too much on credit. And lease.