What makes him hot? And the thing about his damaged side is so typical - women want a "project". A good guy who has his act together is booooring. |
I feel sorry for your DH. He is coming home to a woman who wants another man. This is why for most men, getting married is stupid. If she doesn't divorce you because she is tired of you, she is going to screw around on you and if you leave, there goes 1/2 your assets while she bangs the other guy. |
What makes him hot?
He is 33. I almost did an about face when I found this out. I have never been drawn to someone that much younger than me before, but the Mrs. Robinson idea has popped into my head and there is a power feeling I get when I think what I could teach him. He has also given me clues that he is into the older women thing. He is fit. He keeps in shape by swimming. The fitness thing turns me on because I think about the stamina he must have in bed and the things he would be strong enough to do. He has a foreign accent that I find completely sexy. I've been to his hometown and have a fondness of the country he is from. He has the deepest blue eyes. They are like a window to his soul that he tries to guard. However, when I dare to look into his eyes, all I can see is his beautiful soul. He is a good guy deep inside. Just a man who was unfairly damaged as a child. We have a similar disfunctional childhood family. We get each others quirks and fear of commitment and closeness to another human being. Since I am older and probably because I am a woman, I have dealt with my issues in more healthier ways than him. I also have learned from my mistakes and I can see he is heading for similar mistakes. He is just one life crisis away from a train wreck which is waiting to happen. I wish I could explain more to him that life isn't so black and white and you have to make your own happiness. Sometimes happiness if found in forgiveness. Sometimes happiness is found in changing your perspective. |
Just so you know, getting married for me was far more stupid. I got married way too young, when I still believed in the happy ever after fairy tale. My husband turned into a control freak and probably proposed to keep me on a leash. Hind site is 20/20, but if I had to do it over again, I would never had gotten married. I loved my single life and I loved meeting new people. If I get divorced, I would never remarry and I probably would not even live with another guy again. I would enjoy the freedom to fuck whom ever I want when ever I want. Damn, just sharing a joke and a laugh with another man is what probably started me down the path I am on now. It felt so good to laugh again and the man I lust after has a great but naughty sense of humor. As far as our family's assets, I would say they are half mine anyway because I worked, bought, and own more than half of them outright. I don't need a man to take care of me and I can take care of myself when my husband and I decide to go our separate ways. Finally, I find it completely ironic and freaky that the quote I highlighted sounds just like the guy I lust after when he spoke about his wife. He does not recommend the marriage institution either. So we are all on the same page. |
Have the cotton ropes and I am wet with anticipation. I had a dream about you last night and you did a great job of tying me up then fucking me hard, real hard. |
Worked for John Edwards... ![]() |
I thought this forum was non-explicit? |
My apologies for getting your panties in a bunch. ![]() |
Still craving for your touch. Hope you are thinking of me as often as I do of you. |
Yes! |
If you're mine, I have developed a new unhealthy habit -- thinking about you too much. |
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Go to the library and check out some erotic literature OR go on Amazon and but 50 Shades of Gray OR get off your parent's computer and do your homework!!!! |
I was great seeing you today. Unfortunately, there were too many people around to talk. You have my number. |
Call me, maybe...this is crazy |
No games. You're it. |